actually i've noticed this too. i didn't start having serious knot problems until i got my Denman. i'm guessing because it promotes so much coil definition (and therefore, more shrinkage and more tangling). just this week i've decided to go back to using combs until i can get an Aveda paddle brush.
i like your plan. i'd say maybe consider trying BKT before you go back to relaxing, but of course it all depends on what your ultimate goal is, what works best for your lifestyle and bank account, etc.
i wish you luck! and um... i hope you remember to post some pics for us before you start your C&G challenge...
Gibsongal, what problems have you had with the denman? I'm curious.
OP do you wear wash and go's? I get a lot of knots from that style. I think BKT might be the answer for you.
Well well..., thank God someone else understands what I was going through last week. I sweat alot when I exercise - even more so in this weather - so it's almost impossible not to rinse my hair daily. My hair is not long enough to be combed smoothly in a ponytail and I hate gel so that style is not an option for me. I got really tired of handling my hair daily and doing the same old dreary styles so I decided to give straightening a try. I didn't want to do it myself and spend hrs on it, so I went to the Dominican salon (for the 1st time), and that was the most miserable experience I have ever had in my entire life. I felt my scalp melting! I told myself there was no way in hell I could take this torture every 2 weeks. What upset me the most was that after all that torture (they did a great job of getting my hair straight) by the time I left the salon and got into my car (I kid you not) my hair was a HOT mess! The worst poof I have ever seen.
Immediately as I got home I went to amazon and ordered a relaxer. As soon as i hit the purchase button I got feedback that my card expired. I was too lazy to get up to find another card so I went to sleep. I got up, hated the way my hair felt so I went in the shower and rinsed my it. Went to the computer and came a cross the BKT thread, saw Sheba1's curls and for the 1st time I began to read the thread with an open mind - I spent the whole night in the thread! Next day I felt restless because I want to relax, yet I do not want to relax. I decided to get out of the house and visit different salons to see what they have available - just to explore I told myself. I didn't want to make an irrational decision because of how I was feeling. I hate weaves, braids hurt my scalp (these braiders!!) but low and behold I came across this style on a mannequinn fell in love and walked out of the salon with a weave. Now that I am in the weave, I have time to think and I am SO glad I didn't relax. I guess the lesson for me is that I cannot handle humidity and natural hair. Therefore, I need to incorporate other methods to alleviate the frustration. I am so happy now with my decision. I can wash and go w/out any hassle, and the frustration now seems like a distant memory.
actually i've noticed this too. i didn't start having serious knot problems until i got my Denman. i'm guessing because it promotes so much coil definition (and therefore, more shrinkage and more tangling). just this week i've decided to go back to using combs until i can get an Aveda paddle brush.
i like your plan. i'd say maybe consider trying BKT before you go back to relaxing, but of course it all depends on what your ultimate goal is, what works best for your lifestyle and bank account, etc.
i wish you luck! and um... i hope you remember to post some pics for us before you start your C&G challenge...
No chemicals, and I'm able to retain length.
My technique is quite simply, never allowing my hair to be free long enough to tangle majorly. I wear 'stretched' styles 99% of the time, and as my hair gets longer, I'm gradually moving away from having to have it in twists because I can stretch it and catch it all in a bun.
I have SSK - and I don't really care, honestly. I've got fine hair, and the knots are tiny, and they only cause me issues when I leave my hair loose to tangle with sheds - so I don't.
My detangling routine is multi-step, and I only detangle on wet hair drenched in conditioner - wide tooth comb, medium tooth comb, Denman, into a two strand twist, then rinse, castor oil, and into a braid. I then let it dry, and as I'm twisting it, I go through each twist section with a rattail comb. Getting all the shed hair out is VITAL for me - otherwise, I'll get huge tangles.
I'm willing to live in twists for the next couple of years in order to retain my growth and achieve the length I want. I'll have this hair for life. A couple of years of repetitive styles is nothing in the long term.
Recently, and not so recently, I have considered ending my natural hair journey to pursue a maximum hair length journey. Now, now, now, before anyone says the two journeys do not have to be mutually exclusive...I would say that I agree. For a lot of women, pursuing length does not seem to require a chemical of any sort and yes I have seen the various inspiration threads on this forum and on youtube. However, after more than two years of dealing with single strand knots and the multi-strand knots (which results from shed hair getting tangled with non-shed hair) and the continuous cutting that results from both, I think I may have come to the end of my natural hair journey...
...but I haven't decided yet. I love my natural hair but I would really like to start retaining a little more length. So...my sorority is having our Eastern Regional Conference this weekend in Baltimore and I plan to have my hair professionally flat ironed (by a natural hairstylist) and trimmed to get rid of all of the knots. After the conference, I plan to start a 2 year Crown & Glory Challenge with continuous braids (with about one week breaks) in between. After two years of braids I will then make the decision as to whether or not to continue natural, to BKT or to texturize.
So...are there any naturals who have struggled with this decision, relaxed or texturized and found they were able to retain more length after knot issues went away. I see some naturals mention this problem in threads but did not found a single thread dedicated to this issue so...
Recently, and not so recently, I have considered ending my natural hair journey to pursue a maximum hair length journey. Now, now, now, before anyone says the two journeys do not have to be mutually exclusive...I would say that I agree. For a lot of women, pursuing length does not seem to require a chemical of any sort and yes I have seen the various inspiration threads on this forum and on youtube. However, after more than two years of dealing with single strand knots and the multi-strand knots (which results from shed hair getting tangled with non-shed hair) and the continuous cutting that results from both, I think I may have come to the end of my natural hair journey...
...but I haven't decided yet. I love my natural hair but I would really like to start retaining a little more length. So...my sorority is having our Eastern Regional Conference this weekend in Baltimore and I plan to have my hair professionally flat ironed (by a natural hairstylist) and trimmed to get rid of all of the knots. After the conference, I plan to start a 2 year Crown & Glory Challenge with continuous braids (with about one week breaks) in between. After two years of braids I will then make the decision as to whether or not to continue natural, to BKT or to texturize.
So...are there any naturals who have struggled with this decision, relaxed or texturized and found they were able to retain more length after knot issues went away. I see some naturals mention this problem in threads but did not found a single thread dedicated to this issue so...
i went natural to pursue length
kblc, I noticed the same thing about Vaseline about 3 mos ago. By applying it to the last 3-4 inches of hair, I've eliminated knots and retained more length than before. For the first time I really feel like I'm retaining all my length...although I've been on this hair journey for 21 mos.
Like GoingNatural, I initially went natural to retain length. My hair has the most potential of reaching long lengths (MBL+) when it's left in its natural state. With that said, I have fine-medium hair and I have had to battle split ends and knots for most of my journey. However, that began to change about a year ago, when I started doing the following:
1.) Increasing the moisture level of my hair (using braid spray or an easily absorbed moisturizer.
2.) Ultra low manipulation by wearing wigs. I'd braid my hair in 1 to 4 plaits and just wig it, keeping my hair moisturized and sealing with shea butter and Vaseline
3.) When doing wash n gos, I would use gel. But if I were to let the hold break and let my hair shrink up, I noticed that I would get a lot of splits and knots. So I make sure that my hair remains smooth and clumps together in the same direction. I also use a some curl activator gel to give my hair moisture so that it doesn't dry out.I also rinse my hair before the hold of the gel breaks
4.) I trimmed my hair less and cut ONLY the ends that were split or had knots by doing a deep S&D.
5.) Learning that grease is my friend. Sealing my ends with Vaseline has gave me the greatest boost in moisture and length retention. My hair like silicones when I was relaxed but now they make my hair feel as though the strands are stuck together
have you noticed any length retention?
kblc, I noticed the same thing about Vaseline about 3 mos ago. By applying it to the last 3-4 inches of hair, I've eliminated knots and retained more length than before. For the first time I really feel like I'm retaining all my length...although I've been on this hair journey for 21 mos.
I use Vaseline on my ends as a sealant and I don't have any SSK.
And I can definitely tell by the comparison pics in your siggy that it's working. I only wished I had discovered this little tidbit when I went fully natural in 2006/2007. Don't sleep on the Vaseline people
I retain much more, faster growth with natural hair. I went from ear/neck length to past shoulder length in 6 months, impossible before.
what works for my single strand knots is:
- using a leave in without humectants (I use any conditioner without bad ingredients and no glycerine because I don't want to be dependant on the weather)
- combing my ends before AND after styling, I use a denman comb (best thing ever and I threw away the brush from the same brand)
- sealing with a thick sealant on wash days, my hair only likes avocado butter or murumuru or cupuacu (for some reason the other ones dry out my hair)
- moisturising and sealing with grapeseed oil every single night and using the denman comb on them every so often (I will try rice bran soon as well, olive and coconut get absorbed instead and my ends curl up/knot)
- dusting every 4 months
- avoiding heat.
I abandoned:
- using oils that get absorbed to seal (i.e. coconut, olive)
- detangling with my fingers only (loving the Denman comb)
- Denman brush (curled my ends up, broke my hair off)
- glycerine, honey, jojoba, panthenol, propylene glycol (humectants)
- butters that sit on my hair
ps= Vaseline should be a great sealant as well. I stopped havign ssk when I payed attention to the sealants I used.