I have a strange problem, my hair breaks when it is too dry, but it also breaks when it is too moisterized. It seems that when I try to really keep it moist, it breaks off and becomes quite fragile. I wonder if it could be the moisterizer- i currently use UBH- does this happen to anyone else? I'm a 4a/b is there a moisterizer out there that isn't too heavy and won't break off my hair, but also keeps excessive dryness at bay?