Bmack
Active Member
Okay, I do not want to come across as a hater and so I am asking you ladies for your take on a subject.
A friend of mine got into a big argument with her boyfriend right. He went away on a trip, but was very cryptic about the trip, as he just said he was going away with family. Anyway, she was calling him all day Friday and he never answered until late Friday evening (night before he left). She missed his call but got his message. Okay, so now her mind starts wandering about his trip and who he is with yada, yada, yada.
She texts him the next day (he is on his trip out of town) she gets a little belligerent because she wanted to know why he did not call as he text her that morning while he was OT and she was wondering why he would just not call. Her mind was running away from her.
They go back and forth she slightly accuses him of being up to something. He tells her she is becoming insulting and he stops responding to her text. In the interim, she has a small accident and has to go the emergency room. She mulls over her actions and texts him and calls him to apologize then goes on to tell him about her accident. He never responds- she starts feeling bad. Then she calls me and I wonder why this guy has not called despite the argument to make sure she is fine. Well, he never does until he returns from his trip at which point they discuss what transpired he tells her that he did not want the situation to escalate because she was going overboard with accusations. She is calm and realizes that she was wrong, but cannot understand why he did not even call when she called and text about her accident.
This had me a bit upset too, but it is not my damn business and I am bias because she is a good friend.
Anyway, what do you ladies make of this entire situation?
A friend of mine got into a big argument with her boyfriend right. He went away on a trip, but was very cryptic about the trip, as he just said he was going away with family. Anyway, she was calling him all day Friday and he never answered until late Friday evening (night before he left). She missed his call but got his message. Okay, so now her mind starts wandering about his trip and who he is with yada, yada, yada.
She texts him the next day (he is on his trip out of town) she gets a little belligerent because she wanted to know why he did not call as he text her that morning while he was OT and she was wondering why he would just not call. Her mind was running away from her.
They go back and forth she slightly accuses him of being up to something. He tells her she is becoming insulting and he stops responding to her text. In the interim, she has a small accident and has to go the emergency room. She mulls over her actions and texts him and calls him to apologize then goes on to tell him about her accident. He never responds- she starts feeling bad. Then she calls me and I wonder why this guy has not called despite the argument to make sure she is fine. Well, he never does until he returns from his trip at which point they discuss what transpired he tells her that he did not want the situation to escalate because she was going overboard with accusations. She is calm and realizes that she was wrong, but cannot understand why he did not even call when she called and text about her accident.
This had me a bit upset too, but it is not my damn business and I am bias because she is a good friend.
Anyway, what do you ladies make of this entire situation?