Oh boy! Well its had been about a week since something 'done popped off 'round here. lol
Lets just hope this goes well.
It is damage.
Also please remember that consistent pressing/flat ironing of hair as well as general overmanipulation of your precious strands are also damage.
Pick your poison. ;p
lol I feel you, true story for alota ladies, but in the beginning of my natural journey all I knew how to do was press my hair and I literally did it every wash for like three years straight with no heat protectant and I was retaining length, thickness and strength....if I would've tried that with my relaxed hair I would've been straight BALD I came to see I could seriously get away with murder with my natural coils whereas anything could cause a setback when I was relaxed lol....I think it had to do with the fact that I made my strands more delicate through relaxing.....but that was a good pointIt is damage.
Also please remember that consistent pressing/flat ironing of hair as well as general overmanipulation of your precious strands are also damage.
Pick your poison. ;p
or just change it? I mean if applied properly, etc. I read about Phyto's Natural Relaxer, does that damage your hair? Does it get your hair straight?
lol I feel you, true story for alota ladies, but in the beginning of my natural journey all I knew how to do was press my hair and I literally did it every wash for like three years straight with no heat protectant and I was retaining length, thickness and strength....if I would've tried that with my relaxed hair I would've been straight BALD I came to see I could seriously get away with murder with my natural coils whereas anything could cause a setback when I was relaxed lol....I think it had to do with the fact that I made my strands more delicate through relaxing.....but that was a good point
Oh yea, I knew what you meant alot of things are "supposed to be" but what percent of women do you think apply that relaxer "properly" lol so sad but true....I remember when I was younger I went with my cousin to have her hair pressed and we saw across the room a "stylist" was applying the relaxer on this preteen root to tip I remember looking at it back then like "I don't know much about hair but I dont think shes supposed to be doing that"lolActually, I meant even when natural, heat damage is damage.
It's possible to burn one's curl pattern out (also sometimes called "heat training"). Technically, if one is a consistent presser/flat ironer, they have a considerable amount of damage that they've done over and over again to the same sections of the hair, whereas (typically) relaxing is supposed to be done only to hair unexposed (virgin).
Hold up, I just re-read the OP, are you looking for tips on the best relaxer to get your hair straight? Or are you asking if the relaxer itself is damaging to the hair?or just change it? I mean if applied properly, etc. I read about Phyto's Natural Relaxer, does that damage your hair? Does it get your hair straight?
Well, technically, nobody's hair is healthy because hair is nothing more then dead tissue. What we go for is strength, length retention, moisture, shine, thickness...blunt ends...etc what we term "healthy looking". I think its more Damaged vs Strands that retain their natural structural integrity.Is damage and health exclusive of each other? I see a whole lot of beautiful relaxed hair around here so can relaxed hair be both damaged (by virtue of the chemical alteration) and healthy?
or just change it? I mean if applied properly, etc. I read about Phyto's Natural Relaxer, does that damage your hair? Does it get your hair straight?
Well, technically, nobody's hair is healthy because hair is nothing more then dead tissue. What we go for is strength, length retention, moisture, shine, thickness...blunt ends...etc what we term "healthy looking". I think its more Damaged vs Strands that retain their natural structural integrity.
So someone can have damaged strands that have blunt ends, maintain moisture, have nice shine etc....."healthy looking"
but I feel you 100% there are some relaxed ladies on here that have breathtakingly beautiful hair.
Some use the word damage to describe any and all permanent alterations to the structure of the hair. Some use the word damage specifically to refer to any unseemly or undesirable qualities (unseemly and undesirable are defined by the individual, though a majority tend to agree on many of these qualities). Everyone assesses health based on how their hair looks, feels, and behaves. Products and processes affect all 3 of these to different degrees.
People who define damage based on how hair looks, feels, and behaves can get offended when people define it as any permanent alteration to the structure of the hair, because according to themselves their hair may be healthy, while according to others it isn't. People don't like to be called unhealthy (your hair is an extension of yourself, so that's basically what this equates to), because it is an affront to the ego. That's why you see a few responses with people anticipating negativity in this thread.
Hold up, I just re-read the OP, are you looking for tips on the best relaxer to get your hair straight? Or are you asking if the relaxer itself is damaging to the hair?
Ahh okay so we're on the right track Springs post above hit the nail on the head.Hi BMP,
I wanted to know if relaxers in general damaged your hair and if so, was Phyto a better option for those considering a relaxer. Thank you for your comments.
Phyto is just a regular chemical relaxer (I'm assuming that's what the real question is). There's never a "does" or "doesn't" involved with these things, just "can" and a concomitant likelihood based on what's in it and how it is used. We use others' experiences to help us mentally figure likelihood as well. It reduces the amount of risk we personally take on (we don't have to try out every product before deciding if it is worth using). That's the purpose of giving reviews and of boards like this. Phyto seems to work better for a lot of people than their previous brands, but it is still just a relaxer, so your results may vary.
Some use the word damage to describe any and all permanent alterations to the structure of the hair. Some use the word damage specifically to refer to any unseemly or undesirable qualities (unseemly and undesirable are defined by the individual, though a majority tend to agree on many of these qualities). Everyone assesses health based on how their hair looks, feels, and behaves. Products and processes affect all 3 of these to different degrees.
People who define damage based on how hair looks, feels, and behaves can get offended when people define it as any permanent alteration to the structure of the hair, because according to themselves their hair may be healthy, while according to others it isn't. People don't like to be called unhealthy (your hair is an extension of yourself, so that's basically what this equates to), because it is an affront to the ego.
That's why you see a few responses with people anticipating negativity in this thread.
You're new, so I thought I'd explain, since I imagine you didn't mean to start anything (just giving the benefit of the doubt)