The response above has to be the most heartbreaking. This woman had to 'experience' the pain that she felt when her husband was ill and passed away. Her immediate reaction was a compassion that came from 'deep' within when she first 'read' Tierra's mention of having cancer.
Part of me wants to 'shake' this little girl, and I mean truly 'shake' her...
But now, I can't help but feel even more compassion for the Tierra's of this world. They are 'starved' for love and will seek and attempt any means to obtain affection. Her 'lie' was just that. It was a means and a crying out for someone to 'love' her. For a 'moment' Tierra had love and attention being poured out upon her in one of the strongest ways possible and from so many people.
I can't be angry with her.
As I sit here, I'm fully aware that I have never known a day in my life without love; I've never had to fight for it. Even when my parents divorced and my father later remarried someone else, I was still the very 'center' of his attention as well as the center of love and attention of my grandparents and my mother.
Even when my ex-husband was acting a fool x's 1000 and then some, I was still loved and had the support of many, many people in my life who came to my rescue, without me having to ask, let alone beg to be loved. There was always another man who loved me and wanted to care for me. I always had my family who loved me through everything I've ever been through in this life.
At my highest weight, I was still loved; and at my lowest when I had nothing in material gain, I still had love in my life... unsolicited. Love was always there for me in family and friends, even 'strangers', and most of all in God.
My heart breaks for the 'Tierra's' in this life who have to go to such great lengths to be loved. Her pain is far greater and deeper than the pain she brought about in others who are angry with her lies. Those of us who are frustrated and angry with her still have more than Tierra; they know what love is; they live with love, they were 'free' to overflow Tierra with it. They each have known love in abundance.
Tierra's only 'love' is one that she desires yet she knows not how to obtain it, without deception; stealing and then running and hiding to keep someone from taking it away.
Proverbs 6:31 ...
No one despises a thief who steals [to satisfy his soul]when he is hungry; but when the thief be found he must restore seven-fold what he has stolen.
Tierra has 'love' anorexia... she's starving for love, in a self destructive manner.
People were indeed right to 'confront' her...
... what she did is most truly wrong. Now it's time to see why she's wrong...it's not bipolar. ..flowinlocks... I'm so blessed by you. You care so much about others. You were never in error by creating this thread. God has a plan and a purpose for it and for you Little One... God is using 'you'... ready or not...and in a mighty, mighty way.
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