Thank you for all of the great responses ladies! It seems like most of you do wash loose as I do. I'm just past my 1 year of natural hair so I just wanna keep on the right track. The only drawback is that I use so much water, so I now wash my hair at a bath house to save me some money on my gas bill. My hair is super thick, but I love running my fingers through it and it's easy to do so because I detangle before hand.