Nayna
Unbothered
I was having a discussion with my coworkers about it. Two of my coworkers are in a relationship with each other and we were chatting earlier today. So he was saying that he feels as though it's childish and that it makes the issue last longer. She didn't agree initially and said that she felt as though sometimes you have to not speak to someone in order to get them to act right. Eventually she admitted that the longer she didn't speak the worse the situation became because it started to fester and she started to allow her thoughts to make it worse than what it was.
I spoke to a friend about it later and she is all about the silent treatment and feels as though it's necessary. I know for me, the longer I don't speak to someone the less inclined I am to reach out to fix whatever is wrong. I just hate feeling like I'm chasing someone down to speak to me when we could've resolved the issue in 10 minutes and moved on. My SO is like that and so is one of my bff's. Both Pisces. They love to drag things out; it's really annoying.
How do you ladies feel about the silent treatment?
I spoke to a friend about it later and she is all about the silent treatment and feels as though it's necessary. I know for me, the longer I don't speak to someone the less inclined I am to reach out to fix whatever is wrong. I just hate feeling like I'm chasing someone down to speak to me when we could've resolved the issue in 10 minutes and moved on. My SO is like that and so is one of my bff's. Both Pisces. They love to drag things out; it's really annoying.
How do you ladies feel about the silent treatment?