freckledface
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I'm curious as to how many of you ladies have a nest egg just in case you're happily ever after doesn't end so happily.
A little back ground on my relationship (this is my first post on this part of the forum.) I've been with my SO a year now and I must admit I loovvveee him! This is the best relationshi p I've been in. Since we met it was like we knew we were gonna be together.Were making plan for our future together and really got eachothers back on getting there. BUUUTTT not marriage.... I'm not ready right now and neither is he. But I refuse to be his gf for 6 years but that's a whole other thread lol.
Were buying all new furniture for our place. Well I'm buying it.He can pay the bills for a few months and ill buy the furniture. Were getting a dog. I'll pay for the shots. I've even got a new savings account he doesn't know about. It's not much but its enough for a security deposit and first months rent.
I've had my share of frogs and have been left drained with nothing to show for my love and effort but tears. Not this time. I feel like at least I can leave in a better place than I started.
What yall think? Oh and if you think I'm being evil and paranoid that's welcome too.
Eta: all that's to say if I leave I'm leaving with EVERYTHING
A little back ground on my relationship (this is my first post on this part of the forum.) I've been with my SO a year now and I must admit I loovvveee him! This is the best relationshi p I've been in. Since we met it was like we knew we were gonna be together.Were making plan for our future together and really got eachothers back on getting there. BUUUTTT not marriage.... I'm not ready right now and neither is he. But I refuse to be his gf for 6 years but that's a whole other thread lol.
Were buying all new furniture for our place. Well I'm buying it.He can pay the bills for a few months and ill buy the furniture. Were getting a dog. I'll pay for the shots. I've even got a new savings account he doesn't know about. It's not much but its enough for a security deposit and first months rent.
I've had my share of frogs and have been left drained with nothing to show for my love and effort but tears. Not this time. I feel like at least I can leave in a better place than I started.
What yall think? Oh and if you think I'm being evil and paranoid that's welcome too.
Eta: all that's to say if I leave I'm leaving with EVERYTHING
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