No.
I can't settle. I can't be with someone I feel is beneath me or causes me to
compromise. If I have to think of how my life would be if I werent' with my husband or
think how unhappy I am having to 'make it work'. I would bounce. Thankfully, my
husband respects my unconventional ways. Saying that, I must interject...we are
monogamous, devoted, and infidelity has never been anything we have ever come even
close to having a problem with. Now, with that being said...I must be happy. I can not
worry about putting my life on hold just to make 'something' work. I never understood
conventional books which preached such. Why be miserable. As my husband remarked,
I am a very independent person who could thrive being alone. But as my husband
didn't remark, but I will, he completes me. He is not my better half. He is a complete,
intelligent, thoughtful, gorgeous, yada yada yada male who makes me question why he
is with me at times. [ But I digress. ] Despite my many challenges I have yet to
master, 'settling' with someone is definitely not something I have to 'work at'...
[probably explains why my husband 's time with me compared to my time with others
has been DRASTICALLY longer....but again...I digress.
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