Do you call your man Daddy?

lol i was just tallking to my girl about this....

calling a man "daddy"....

I already got one and I love him alot and we have a good relationship so whenever I hear the word and reference to "my", I think of my real dad....and Im not thinking of my man and my dad in the same way
 
I call a lot of men, "Daddy." Like, "Hey, Iansan!" and I'll reply, "What's up, Daddy!" Lol, a friend of mine years ago used to say that and I thought it was funny and men like it, lol...
 
I may not have anyone right now but that would definitely be a NO!!!!! It just doesn't feel right saying it let alone, I don't even call my dad, daddy.

On a side-note: remember on the Golden Girls when Blanche would call her father, "big daddy", it just grosses me out everytime I hear it :nono:
 
No No No!!!

I refuse b/c 1) it's gross and 2) I'm looking for a SO not another father. Some dudes try to act like your father and I'm not going to put idea in his head
 
on the flip though....i see no problem with men calling women mama, mommy, etc..

my ex always called me momma

hmmm interesting

my best male friend says i "raise" guys like i was their mother....even more interesting
 
Ewww, no. I have an ex that would want me to call him daddy and it always made me uncomfortable. My father is the only man I call daddy.
 
Gosh I had a friend who loved to call men "Daddy".....She said when she used it in bed, her boo would flip out, but she jus love calling him "daddy" :huh:

I've read it in certain *ahem* erotic literature and I could never get why its sexy! Seriously? Daddy?

ETA: And dont call me "ma" or "momma" either!! lol :lachen:
 
Ehhh... nah, not really... But I have jokingly referred to current SO as that, only dude I've kinda called that. He calls me 'baby girl'... Nothing incestuous about it at all.
 
I have a daddy, his name is David. I never call him by his first name, he is daddy. I'm not calling an SO daddy.

Its cool if other folks want to call their SOs daddy.

My daddy is so dear to me, he earned the daddy title through his loving care over many years so that special designation belongs to him.
 
Allandra said:
I don't see anything wrong with it either.

Heck, I don't even have any children, and my dh calls me momma. :lol:
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:lol:

And I don't call my father daddy (I'm the only one of his kids and stepkids that dont'). And I don't always call DH daddy but alot of the times I do.
 
In my life's experiences (and I'm young so this is only what I know so far), women who don't have a strong bond with their father are more open to calling their SO daddy than women who feel deep connection with their father. IMO
 
babyb900 said:
In my life's experiences (and I'm young so this is only what I know so far), women who don't have a strong bond with their father are more open to calling their SO daddy than women who feel deep connection with their father. IMO
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I think this is true. At least for me.:yep:
 
No and it does feel creepy to me at this point. I could never let that come out of my mouth now.....maybe when kids are in the picture.

I don't want to think of him and my dad in the same way:nono:.
 
In all the years I have known my grandparents I have never heard my grandmother call my granddad anything but daddy.

I call my fiance daddy sometimes and we have no kids. He is the first SO I have ever called daddy though.

I also am very close to both my father and my grandfather who raised me, so that isn't the reason call my SO daddy. He thinks it's cute and I like to call him that :giggle:
 
No...I call my real father Daddy...doesn't feel right for me to use it on someone else, even jokingly. So the name is reserved until I have kids.

Don't mind calling him papi though. I also like being called ma, mama, or mami. Only by SO though, not random dudes.
 
babyb900 said:
In my life's experiences (and I'm young so this is only what I know so far), women who don't have a strong bond with their father are more open to calling their SO daddy than women who feel deep connection with their father. IMO
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:yep: I was actually going to say something very similar to this. Unfortunately there are a lot of "us" coming out of single parent homes, so for those that weren't raised with a "daddy" it wouldn't be a big deal to call their man that. But I was raised with my father and have a great relationship with him. I've been calling my father "daddy" for 26 years. YES, I still call my father "daddy" to this day! :lol: That mess would not fly with me. It would be a big turn off. :nono:
 
this reminds me of a time when i was dating this guy.....his nickname was Tutu..thas what his family called him...big ol 250lb football player called TuTu....anyways i would come over to his grandmas house where his family would be at and one of his young cousins..about 3 or 4 years old comes up to me and asks me

"is TuTu yo daddy?"

it was the cutest, funniest thing I ever heard and i just bust out laughing..and she was so serious she was really looking at me with this look on her lil face like..Im not telling a joke Im asking you a question....

I was just like

no sweetie...TuTu is not my daddy
 
Jade Feria said:
No...I call my real father Daddy...doesn't feel right for me to use it on someone else, even jokingly. So the name is reserved until I have kids.

Don't mind calling him papi though. I also like being called ma, mama, or mami. Only by SO though, not random dudes.
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I could MAYBE think about calling my SO "papi" (even though I would think that was weird if he wasn't latino) or "papa," and that would still be pushing it... :lol:
 
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