BroadstreetBully
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This white coworker of mine had been wanting me to meet this (black) male friend of hers because she thinks we'd be great for one another. I was hesitant because I rarely have luck when white acquaintances try to hook me up with their black male friends (often these black males do not like black women, hence why they have mostly white female friends).
Well she sent me his Myspace link and told me to check it out. I did...and I must say, I was really feeling him...it's hard for me to find black men that are into the same music, etc...as myself. So I was very excited. I decided to set up a Myspace so he could check mine out as well, see pictures...etc... Well my white coworker told him about me and she said he seemed excited. She let him know that I would send him a friend request as soon as I set up my page. I went ahead and sent him a friend request, letting him know I was ******'s friend. He's in a band that I've heard about around here, so with the friend request I also gave him props on his music and asked him a question about when they were playing their next show. I figured, if nothing sparked between us, at least I'd have another black rocker friend.
Well he accepted my request, but nothing else. No thank you, no message, no answer, nothing. It's been a month and I went ahead and deleted his friendship.
I'm honestly not THAT upset about it, but I felt like it was rude for him to not even send me anything back. My coworker went through a lot to play "matchmaker" and look out for her friends, and he ignores me.![Wallbash :wallbash: :wallbash:](/smilies/wallbash.gif)
I figured something was up when I noticed that he didn't have ONE black female friend on his friend's list. Instead he had a bunch of white chicks. Another black man who won't give a sista the time of day. This is why I don't even bother going out of my way to find a rocker black guy, cause I'm always rejected. Rejection from a white guy is whatever, but from a black guy, it sucks.
So I decided to experiment. I had this pretty, white female friend of mine send him a friend request and give him props on his music/ask him about the next show. Well not even 2 hours later she tells me he accepted her request AND sent her a message thanking her for the compliment, updates on the band, a schedule of their shows, and told her he hopes to see her at the next show! A'int that a *****?
And he sent her ANOTHER message today making small talk!![Lachen :lachen: :lachen:](/smilies/lachen70.gif)
So yeah, sorry I just needed to vent about this. Incidents like these remind me why I've just about given up on finding a black guy I have stuff in common with.
Do you think it was rude for him to not send me anything back? Do you think it could have been race-related? Do rocker black men even like black women anymore?
Well she sent me his Myspace link and told me to check it out. I did...and I must say, I was really feeling him...it's hard for me to find black men that are into the same music, etc...as myself. So I was very excited. I decided to set up a Myspace so he could check mine out as well, see pictures...etc... Well my white coworker told him about me and she said he seemed excited. She let him know that I would send him a friend request as soon as I set up my page. I went ahead and sent him a friend request, letting him know I was ******'s friend. He's in a band that I've heard about around here, so with the friend request I also gave him props on his music and asked him a question about when they were playing their next show. I figured, if nothing sparked between us, at least I'd have another black rocker friend.
Well he accepted my request, but nothing else. No thank you, no message, no answer, nothing. It's been a month and I went ahead and deleted his friendship.
I'm honestly not THAT upset about it, but I felt like it was rude for him to not even send me anything back. My coworker went through a lot to play "matchmaker" and look out for her friends, and he ignores me.
![Wallbash :wallbash: :wallbash:](/smilies/wallbash.gif)
I figured something was up when I noticed that he didn't have ONE black female friend on his friend's list. Instead he had a bunch of white chicks. Another black man who won't give a sista the time of day. This is why I don't even bother going out of my way to find a rocker black guy, cause I'm always rejected. Rejection from a white guy is whatever, but from a black guy, it sucks.
So I decided to experiment. I had this pretty, white female friend of mine send him a friend request and give him props on his music/ask him about the next show. Well not even 2 hours later she tells me he accepted her request AND sent her a message thanking her for the compliment, updates on the band, a schedule of their shows, and told her he hopes to see her at the next show! A'int that a *****?
![Lachen :lachen: :lachen:](/smilies/lachen70.gif)
So yeah, sorry I just needed to vent about this. Incidents like these remind me why I've just about given up on finding a black guy I have stuff in common with.
Do you think it was rude for him to not send me anything back? Do you think it could have been race-related? Do rocker black men even like black women anymore?