tootybooty
New Member
Hey yall
I love wearing my hair in loose updos for everyday styles (I fingercomb my hair into buns, or clipped up with loose ends hanging). I just feel that it is more comfortable for me, but as the day goes on, some loose hairs come out of the updo, and I have some frizzy fly-aways framing my face. This does not bother me in casual settings (going to school, running errands, etc.). I don't use gel or pomade to slick back my hair, but I notice this is what a lot of black and latina women do to look "neat" as an everyday style?? I know that some ladies may not have long enough hair to wear their hair up loosely, but I see even when black/latina women have longer hair, they use something to get their hair hard and make gelled "waves." I wonder.. I generally mostly see people with very curly/kinky hair do this.. and I wonder is this gelled style really just intended to hide the kinks/frizz?
I don't really like putting so much product in my hair, but on the other hand, I wonder how many women I come across who think I look like a hot mess just because I don't have slick up-dos. Yes, I have some kinky, fuzzy edges... does that mean that some may think that my hair isn't presentable enough for everyday, casual wear? I think my kinks are pretty lol.
I wonder if anyone has thoughts about this... Do any of you wear loose up-dos?
I love wearing my hair in loose updos for everyday styles (I fingercomb my hair into buns, or clipped up with loose ends hanging). I just feel that it is more comfortable for me, but as the day goes on, some loose hairs come out of the updo, and I have some frizzy fly-aways framing my face. This does not bother me in casual settings (going to school, running errands, etc.). I don't use gel or pomade to slick back my hair, but I notice this is what a lot of black and latina women do to look "neat" as an everyday style?? I know that some ladies may not have long enough hair to wear their hair up loosely, but I see even when black/latina women have longer hair, they use something to get their hair hard and make gelled "waves." I wonder.. I generally mostly see people with very curly/kinky hair do this.. and I wonder is this gelled style really just intended to hide the kinks/frizz?
I don't really like putting so much product in my hair, but on the other hand, I wonder how many women I come across who think I look like a hot mess just because I don't have slick up-dos. Yes, I have some kinky, fuzzy edges... does that mean that some may think that my hair isn't presentable enough for everyday, casual wear? I think my kinks are pretty lol.
I wonder if anyone has thoughts about this... Do any of you wear loose up-dos?