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yellagirl730

yellagirl730

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My hubby and I are having the talk this evening. He told me last week that he did not think we would stay married and as we were planning on buying a house, he doesn't want to now. I am devastated, I want my marriage to work. I have not a clue what to say, I haven't been sleeping or eating.
 
I'm so sorry to hear about this OP.

You seem like you're devasted. Is he open to counseling?

I really don't know what to say.

Offering ((((HUGS)))
 
Oh Honey :sad:
(((hugs for you))) I don't know what to say except....

breathe....

I feel the hurt and disappointment in your post.
Hang in there OP. You will survive this.

You WILL.
 
Hugs to you OP

Hopefully you take the time to sort things out, since your Hubby is not open to going to counseling try a different approach and give him time to open up and tell you how he feel, you know how men can be.

I wish you the best and stay strong and be honest with yourself.
 
yellagirl730 said:
My hubby and I are having the talk this evening. He told me last week that he did not think we would stay married and as we were planning on buying a house, he doesn't want to now. I am devastated, I want my marriage to work. I have not a clue what to say, I haven't been sleeping or eating.
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Offering more hugs too... Is this out of the blue? Do you have any idea where this is coming from...
 
I'm so sorry.
Please don't be alone, try to sleep over at a friend's house or a relative that can take care of you for a little while. Or have someone come over to your place.
Don't forget to eat and put yourself first.
I'm sending a big hug here...please post again with updates.
:bighug:
 
I am really sorry you are going through this. I hope you guys can work through this. Although I am divorced I HATE to see people getting divorced especially if its something that can be worked out.
 
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I'm not married nor have I ever been so I have no real advice to lend. I just want to say that I can feel the angst in your post. I'm so sorry that you're going through this and pray that you both can find a way to keep your marriage together. Surround yourself with people who can lend you support in the meantime. You shouldn't go through this alone.
 
I'm sorry to hear that :ohwell: for how long have you been married? (sorry if it's too personal).
Please take care of yourself hun.

(((hugs)))
 
My heart goes out to you, OP. (((hugs))) Please don't be alone. I really hope you have a friend that you can stay with for a little while.
 
yellagirl730 said:
My hubby and I are having the talk this evening. He told me last week that he did not think we would stay married and as we were planning on buying a house, he doesn't want to now. I am devastated, I want my marriage to work. I have not a clue what to say, I haven't been sleeping or eating.
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What does the house have to do with anything? :perplexed
Is he seeing someone else? Does he want to pursue another relationship?

Sorry to hear of your difficulties. [BIG HUG]
Stay calm and get a plan together. Don't do anything rash.
 
You should not be alone right now try to stay with a friend or family member because you need some support. I hope everything works out for you.
 
We spoke last night and he says he wants a divorce. States he has not been happy and has wanted a divorce for a while, I tell you it hit me like a ton of bricks. I think he has someone else but of course he won't tell me. But if thats what he wants he can take care of it, I'm not doing a thing. Hugs to all that have responded.
 
yellagirl730 said:
We spoke last night and he says he wants a divorce. States he has not been happy and has wanted a divorce for a while, I tell you it hit me like a ton of bricks. I think he has someone else but of course he won't tell me. But if thats what he wants he can take care of it, I'm not doing a thing. Hugs to all that have responded.
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That's deep. I'm sorry you're going through this.

I just wanted to say, you need to get yourself a lawyer so that you can have someone to advocate for you during this process. Don't let him "take care of it" because if he does you may end up with the short end of the stick. The fact that he just told you this out of the blue is a red flag. He's going to look out for himself in the divorce proceedings, not you. You need to make sure someone is looking out for you.
 
I'll be thinking of you in my prayers tonight. I've never been married but I would encourage you to please seek professional help through this time even if he doesn't want to join you.
 
I'm sooo sorry to hear this OP. I can't imagine how devastating this is for you. I hope you have friends/family/church member to confide in and seek peace. ((HUGS))
 
Yellagirl please take care of yourself. Not eating or sleeping... don't do this to yourself. I hope everything works out for you. Stay strong and just know this too shall pass.
 
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