My gf who is married was talking to me about getting a divorce. She asked my opinion and I told her she should divorce. The reason I gave is because she is constantly cheating on her husband. When she's not, he's her boo. When she is, she finds 101 things wrong with him. I told her when you get to the point where you are talking to the man, while your husband is in the house on YOUR wedding anniversary and you say it's your mom...It is time to go!
There is this one guy who calls her when he wants to. He can go a year or two, with a girl and when they break up, he calls my friend. She goes running, and back to the lies and sneaking and meetings and sexcapades. Granted, her husband hasn't done a good job of keeping a job but it doesn't excuse her behavior. She has been with different guys throughout the marriage. This one particular guy mentioned earlier for years. She has 4 children and she doesn't consider them when she leaves to met the guy.
I know what God says about marriage and such but I would rather her get divorced, than to continue to do what she is doing. There will come a time soon, when the guy will drop her again and she'll go back to loving her husband. She doesn't even want to sleep in the bed with her husband when she's cheating. She stays so angry with him and she should be angry with herself. She's waiting to hear about this apartment and she says she's going to get up the courage to tell him this weekend.
I hope this is truly what she wants because , there are always callers when you are attached. Once you are available the pool dries up!
There is this one guy who calls her when he wants to. He can go a year or two, with a girl and when they break up, he calls my friend. She goes running, and back to the lies and sneaking and meetings and sexcapades. Granted, her husband hasn't done a good job of keeping a job but it doesn't excuse her behavior. She has been with different guys throughout the marriage. This one particular guy mentioned earlier for years. She has 4 children and she doesn't consider them when she leaves to met the guy.
I know what God says about marriage and such but I would rather her get divorced, than to continue to do what she is doing. There will come a time soon, when the guy will drop her again and she'll go back to loving her husband. She doesn't even want to sleep in the bed with her husband when she's cheating. She stays so angry with him and she should be angry with herself. She's waiting to hear about this apartment and she says she's going to get up the courage to tell him this weekend.
I hope this is truly what she wants because , there are always callers when you are attached. Once you are available the pool dries up!
I suspect that part of her wants to get caught; then again, she must really be afraid of it because she sneaks behind (well, I guess in front of, too) her husband's back. It saddens me that she has children and disregards her family and the sanctity of marriage for cheap thrills. If nothing else, I just hope that she at least respects her husband enough to stop this. And I also agree with the others - you are a wonderful person to be listening to her and offering some support even though you clearly disagree with her actions, but you probably shouldn't tell her if she should get a divorce or not. I also wish you good luck, too. This is a tricky situation.
