LadyPaniolo
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DH wants me to stop wearing weaves and wigs. But I don't think I can stop!
He doesn't often interject into these matters, but he feels he can't remain silent any longer. The first couple weaves I self installed ended up damaging my hairline really badly. The wig cap and the wig combs ripped my edges up. DH pointed out that protective styling not only takes up loads of time, but is damaging my hair over time. He's not making any demands, but he's asked me from the heart several times to stop wearing them.
He wants me to wear my natural hair in 2 buns, Princess Lea style. He suggested that I can wear bun covers that I sew from silk or heavy satin, and decorate them with beads (I love to bead) I can also use hairsticks that I make myself.
I try to go with the buns, but then the weave/wig/extensions just starts calling to me.... I think I need help!
I try to stay away from my massive stash of weaves and wigs and braiding hair, but I'm drawn to it again and again.
What to do
He doesn't often interject into these matters, but he feels he can't remain silent any longer. The first couple weaves I self installed ended up damaging my hairline really badly. The wig cap and the wig combs ripped my edges up. DH pointed out that protective styling not only takes up loads of time, but is damaging my hair over time. He's not making any demands, but he's asked me from the heart several times to stop wearing them.
He wants me to wear my natural hair in 2 buns, Princess Lea style. He suggested that I can wear bun covers that I sew from silk or heavy satin, and decorate them with beads (I love to bead) I can also use hairsticks that I make myself.
I try to go with the buns, but then the weave/wig/extensions just starts calling to me.... I think I need help!
I try to stay away from my massive stash of weaves and wigs and braiding hair, but I'm drawn to it again and again.
What to do