GreenD
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Hey ladies, I just came to the realization that my hubby may have Adult ADHD. Before we got engaged I noticed a couple of indicators, but we often joked about him having it, and didn't think much of it. Until one day I Googled it and read the symptons and forwarded them to him, and he was really quiet and said, "I'm a text book (case)". Because it wasn't as apparent then as it is now (we weren't living together) I had no idea how obvious the signs (thought subtle) were until now.
Fast forward 4 years to today. I Googled adult ADHD and it's freaky how people have described my hubby to a "T". While I couldn't accept that he was just heartless and didn't care, I'm happy to know this may be a reason for his actions, and I really want to help him and us through this. I just hope I can convince him to follow through and see the therapist and really work together to improve his quality of life as well as mine.
Here's a few articles (sorry kinda long) that may give you a better idea of what I'm dealing with. Many aspects described is my life verbatim, which I hope can explain the reasoning of some of my posts. I hope this can help you all as well if you're in a similar situation. Please feel free to post if you've experienced this or are in a similar situation.
http://www.webmd.com/add-adhd/default.htm
http://www.webmd.com/add-adhd/adult-adhd-your-relationships
http://www.adhdmarriage.com/content/feeling-ignored-non-adhd-spouse-dilemna Summary of my life with DH.
http://www.additudemag.com/adhd/article/1593.html
http://add.about.com/od/livingwithadhd/a/spouse.htm
http://www.additudemag.com/adhd/article/1030.html
Fast forward 4 years to today. I Googled adult ADHD and it's freaky how people have described my hubby to a "T". While I couldn't accept that he was just heartless and didn't care, I'm happy to know this may be a reason for his actions, and I really want to help him and us through this. I just hope I can convince him to follow through and see the therapist and really work together to improve his quality of life as well as mine.
Here's a few articles (sorry kinda long) that may give you a better idea of what I'm dealing with. Many aspects described is my life verbatim, which I hope can explain the reasoning of some of my posts. I hope this can help you all as well if you're in a similar situation. Please feel free to post if you've experienced this or are in a similar situation.
http://www.webmd.com/add-adhd/default.htm
http://www.webmd.com/add-adhd/adult-adhd-your-relationships
http://www.adhdmarriage.com/content/feeling-ignored-non-adhd-spouse-dilemna Summary of my life with DH.
http://www.additudemag.com/adhd/article/1593.html
http://add.about.com/od/livingwithadhd/a/spouse.htm
http://www.additudemag.com/adhd/article/1030.html
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