MissJ
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who has been with a woman for several years, has children by her, but won't marry her.
This reminds me of the T.I. and Tiny situation and some other people's situations. If those guys are behaving and thinking the same way this guy is, then woe be unto those women.
Anyway, this guy posted a thread over at Askmen, and as people questioned him, he added more foul stuff.
This reminds me of the T.I. and Tiny situation and some other people's situations. If those guys are behaving and thinking the same way this guy is, then woe be unto those women.
Anyway, this guy posted a thread over at Askmen, and as people questioned him, he added more foul stuff.
Hi Guys im looking for advice and opinions on this heartbreaking subject.
I have been with my partner for 10 years staying together for 8.
We have 2 children aged 7 and 2.
I have come to the conclusion i want out. Im 35 and feel like i have missed a big chunk of my independant life. I do not love my partner properly and i am not proud of her(although she has many great thing about her) I know i can get other woman as i have met a couple of girls in pubs and basically had a great night with them although we never had sex.
I have another property which i rent out but can move in(with notice) if really required.
I think about this ALL the time and i feel its depressing me and i feel trapped.
I know i have to go but the thought of leaving my children is gut wrenching.
I want to date other woman as i feel i have missed out over the years.
Please help
I know the problem i just dont love her.
Its easier said than done.
I have a good life,nice home, no real money worries. I fear i cant do it ,but a big part knows i have to do it.
Also what other woman would want to go with a man with 2 kids?
Thats a question i have asked myself a thousand times.
The kids were not planned but are the only reason im still here.
I dont want to make up for lost time i just want some independance.
I have never loved this woman properly my eye keeps looking elsewhere and sometimes i get joy elsewhere and it makes me sad that i cant see other women.
Okay firstly thanks everyone for the input.
I did not plan on having children they both came along unexpected and i wanted to to the right thing by them which is be a good dad which i know i am.
Yes i should of kept my dick in my trousers but i was under the impression there was contraception getting used.
I fully understand that the children come first and do intend to see them as much as possible and support partner and kids cash wise.
We are not married and i intend to never get married to anyone.
I am not going to start another relashonship with other woman until i feel im ready which will be years away.
We nearly split up last year so my partner knows that things are not all rosy in the garden.
Yes i have been getting my dick "wet" over the years and i hate the guilt it brings.
Im being honest with myself now instead of being the actor which i have perfected over the years.
I know it will be hard for everyone and no decision has been made.
But i cant go on like this ,i cant lie anymore.