gloomgeisha
New Member
This thread is for people involved in, considering becoming involved in, or whom have previously left D/s relationships where they have either been the submissive or the Dominant or "switches."
Lately the SO and I have considered looking into "the lifestyle" and, having done a few scenes in the bedroom, wish to extend this kind of relationship to our everyday lives.
For the women whom have been in this kind of relationship, or are in this kind of relationship currently- how did you ease into 24/7 from roleplay? As an African American, what has been the reception of you and your Dom/sub in the scene overall? How have you handled when there are guests? Is that when the relationship switches back to "vanilla?"
Are you "out" to friends and family or is it something between you and your local groups?
I look forward to hearing from experienced peers.
Experienced peers means that this should stop the comments of "Oh I could never do that" (when no one asked) what have you, blah blah blah.
Lately the SO and I have considered looking into "the lifestyle" and, having done a few scenes in the bedroom, wish to extend this kind of relationship to our everyday lives.
For the women whom have been in this kind of relationship, or are in this kind of relationship currently- how did you ease into 24/7 from roleplay? As an African American, what has been the reception of you and your Dom/sub in the scene overall? How have you handled when there are guests? Is that when the relationship switches back to "vanilla?"
Are you "out" to friends and family or is it something between you and your local groups?
I look forward to hearing from experienced peers.
Experienced peers means that this should stop the comments of "Oh I could never do that" (when no one asked) what have you, blah blah blah.