SurferBabe
Well-Known Member
I hate having crushes.
Honestly, I'm starting to feel like I'm too darn old to have these crushes anyway.
There are many reasons why I feel like crushes might be unhealthy for a woman. It's especially unhealthy for unattached women who are trying to enjoy their single lives. I would always embark on "singledom" with much enthusiasm and then I would start crushing on someone. Suddenly the optimism and confidence would slip away and I'd be back at square one--breaking all the rules. erplexed
For the single woman that is looking for love, crushes and unrequited "like" can take up so much of her time and effort that she misses out on a good thing.
I'm making a promise to myself that once I get over this crush, there will be no more. Of course there are no guarantees, but I'm trying to come up with some "rules" regarding how to deal with and avoid the dreaded crush and unrequited "like" problem.
So ladies, I'm needing you to drop some knowledge for the "serial crushers" of the world. How are you able to focus only on men who show interest in you? What are the best ways to detach emotionally from a crush? How do you stop yourself from becoming so emotionally attached in the first place?
Any other "crushaholics" out there?
Honestly, I'm starting to feel like I'm too darn old to have these crushes anyway.
There are many reasons why I feel like crushes might be unhealthy for a woman. It's especially unhealthy for unattached women who are trying to enjoy their single lives. I would always embark on "singledom" with much enthusiasm and then I would start crushing on someone. Suddenly the optimism and confidence would slip away and I'd be back at square one--breaking all the rules. erplexed
For the single woman that is looking for love, crushes and unrequited "like" can take up so much of her time and effort that she misses out on a good thing.
I'm making a promise to myself that once I get over this crush, there will be no more. Of course there are no guarantees, but I'm trying to come up with some "rules" regarding how to deal with and avoid the dreaded crush and unrequited "like" problem.
So ladies, I'm needing you to drop some knowledge for the "serial crushers" of the world. How are you able to focus only on men who show interest in you? What are the best ways to detach emotionally from a crush? How do you stop yourself from becoming so emotionally attached in the first place?
Any other "crushaholics" out there?