Hi, I'm new and here's a question. I have natural, 4b hair and I've noticed that when i wash with CON it feels amazing- until I condition afterwards. I used to think it was the conditioner- (I've tried Tropical Avocado, Nature's Gate herbal, LeKair, mashed avocado and honey). They feel good on my hair until I wash it out, then it feels average. I do CO's but I vary when I shampoo based upon when I feel my hair needs it. Any suggestions?