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Committing to Curly Hair: Shaping, Regimen, Styling, and More

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Your hair looks beautiful, and very healthy. I love the colour, you can really see it when it's straight . You don't look too far off from BSL.
Many thanks, @Angel of the North! Your comments encourage me a lot! You like the color? Yay!!! Me, too! I looooooove having color.

It's baaaaarely armpit length, but that's okay. One side of my hair is very thin. I can't tell AS much when it's straightened, but when it's curly I feel like I'm missing hair or something! I honestly feel like the hair dresser's handling of my hair ripped out a lot of my hair. She's great otherwise, but she's Latina, and I don't know if she 100% gets that I handle my fine hair extremely gently as to avoid as much breakage as possible.

One visit she ran her fingers through my curly hair DRY to prove I needed a trim. She held up strands of hair in her hands and said "See?" and pointed to additional ripped out hair on the ground. My shell-shocked self was thinking, "I know I need a trim. I didn't need that damaging demo!!!!!!!"

I didn't say anything out loud because during my first cut when I asked her to preserve as much length as possible but please cut out the damage and give me an easily wearable wng shape, she made comments about how she's noticed that some black women are so pressed about getting length that they wear damaged hair just so they can seem to have length. So, instead of saying something about her running her fingers through my dry hair to prove I needed a trim, internally I just decided to return to my old stylist.

Anywaaaaay . . . :look: :laugh:

So glad to see you back! Hope all is well! ❤️
 
You're very welcome! I'm glad that I'm able to give you encouragement along your journey, find inspiration and encouragement from many ladies across the the board, especially over the years, it's great to support, encourage and uplift each other as women.

Your cut looks slightly longer in the back than the sides, it's there! That's the type of colour I would want if I ever died my hair for sure, I just don't know how these fine strands would hold up with the chemicals and the process. I have to find creative ways to play with colour.

I was reading through your experience with the Latina stylist in shock and disbelief, I'm so glad you didn't go back there, and thankfully your old stylist was available. I'm extremely funny about who gets to put hands in my hair, I'm also very vocal about my likes and dislikes. I don't think I would have allowed her to carryout any services on my hair with that roughness, she was also rude and the attitude, behaviour and comments were very disrespectful.
 
You're very welcome! I'm glad that I'm able to give you encouragement along your journey, find inspiration and encouragement from many ladies across the the board, especially over the years, it's great to support, encourage and uplift each other as women.

Your cut looks slightly longer in the back than the sides, it's there! That's the type of colour I would want if I ever died my hair for sure, I just don't know how these fine strands would hold up with the chemicals and the process. I have to find creative ways to play with colour.

I was reading through your experience with the Latina stylist in shock and disbelief, I'm so glad you didn't go back there, and thankfully your old stylist was available. I'm extremely funny about who gets to put hands in my hair, I'm also very vocal about my likes and dislikes. I don't think I would have allowed her to carryout any services on my hair with that roughness, she was also rude and the attitude, behaviour and comments were very disrespectful.
Yeah . . .

Her delivery wasn't rude, but I found the statements to be arrogant and overconfident.

I will retain more hair if I keep my hair away from her. Yep. I'm grateful for the original cut and the color job, but I won't be returning.
 
Many thanks, @Angel of the North! how she's noticed that some black women are so pressed about getting length that they wear damaged hair just so they can seem to have length.
Omg these type of comments drive me mad. Some of these stylist can’t do anything but a bob cut or the same style on every client. I can’t follow other stylist because most of the time the people and stylist are garbage
 
Omg these type of comments drive me mad. Some of these stylist can’t do anything but a bob cut or the same style on every client. I can’t follow other stylist because most of the time the people and stylist are garbage
Word. It's extreeeeeemely irritating. I can only imagine how you feel as a hair dresser.
 
Yeah . . .

Her delivery wasn't rude, but I found the statements to be arrogant and overconfident.

I will retain more hair if I keep my hair away from her. Yep. I'm grateful for the original cut and the color job, but I won't be returning.
I suppose that is something, but I still think what she said was rude, especially the bit about keeping unhealthy hair for length, that definitely rubbed me the wrong way. I know there's a lot of women who do this, but that was a whole generalisation she made.

I'm just glad your back in good hands with a trusted stylist and your hair and her colour are popping! :yep:
 
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