Theirs will be temporary, if she talks him into any kind of relationship. [7]
--386. Keepers for Keepers
Crowned as Mr. Right and conqueror before he earns it with devotion, his conquering spirit is released to look elsewhere. It’s his nature, and only his devotion to someone keeps it in check. [10]
--582. Keepers for Keepers
‘Good enough’ opens the door to finding devotion instead of just commitment. Maybe not her devotion to him but his to her, and that’s more important for fulfilling her hopes and dreams.
--362. Mr. Good Enough
Don’t take or show any interest until a man shows interest in her. Permanency grows in his heart from his working hard to win her. His accomplishments that become habitual are much more meaningful to a man than unearned gifts.
637. She’s Interested, He’s Not, No.3
Jack becomes Mr. Right in three steps: First, his Jill picks him more for husbanding and fathering potential than being ‘right’. Second, she shows gratitude for his providing, protecting, etc. Third, she coaches him into good husbanding and fathering. Her successes elevate him to Mr. Right, if he’s to get there.
♂ Jack is obvious. Commitment you hear, devotion you see.
436. Do Women Know Jack About Jack? –Pt. 23
A man’s devotion springs from actions, such as investing himself in something—hobby, woman, job? The greater his investment of himself, the greater is his reward.
-753. The Majesty of Sex
☼ Devotion lasts, commitment may not. [13]
--410. Keepers for Keepers
Third, she too eagerly accepts his words of commitment instead of expecting actions that signify devotion to her and their union.
--361. Mr. Wrong alias Mr. Right
♂If she talks a man into marriage, it won’t last. A man’s devotion to marriage is very different from devotion to a woman.
91. Do Women Know Jack About Jack?
♂ A man’s devotion to wife and marriage are not the same. The former is based on his heart, his feelings for her. The latter is based on his mind, values, principles, vows, and his word—to the extent that he honors such things.
--97. Do Women Know Jack About Jack?
A man’s love is based on respect for an extraordinary woman who outshines most others. She becomes extraordinary in his eyes, if he has to work hard to impress her, hold her attention, and otherwise prove himself worthy of her. Her attractiveness just gets the ball rolling.
--114. Do Women Know Jack About Jack?
The male nature tends to take a female for granted. Ensuring that his devotion goes beyond mere commitment minimizes her being taken for granted after marriage. Does he like, love, or cherish her? Without the latter, relationships easily shatter.
--308. Do Women Know Jack about Jack?
♂♥ His devotion reflects emotional fidelity. His commitment lacks that depth of meaning.
--331. Do Women Know Jack About Jack?
♥Men devote—as opposed to commit—themselves to women that exhibit core values of self-esteem, self-confidence, self-respect, and a self-image of devoting herself to one man.
366. Do Women Know Jack About Jack?
51. A man’s natural pursuit of other females does not stop until one woman so captures his respect and captivates his imagination that he devotes himself to her alone. What’s her best strategy for winning this battle of the sexes?
--234. Female Fortitude
If she expects his devotion, it arises from what he does for her, not what she does for him.
--295. Female Fortitude
If she makes it easy for him to know her, she makes it hard for him to keep her. Mystery captivates.
--300. Female Fortitude
By making herself worthy of a man, she confirms inequality and hints at inferiority.
--330. Female Fortitude
Feasting through their ears as women do, many fool themselves by accepting words of commitment in lieu of actions that display devotion.
--537. Heart over Head Redux A
Commitment comes in words and depends on faith by the listener. Devotion can be seen in actions that make both words and faith unnecessary. [13]
--402. Keepers for Keepers
Women don’t make a man prove himself worthy of her. When words are enough to conquer, men offer little else. [18]
--419. Keepers
Are his promises of commitment confirmed by actions that show devotion? If not, it’s probably too early to commit yourself.
--768. Beware Red Flags
Does he seek to earn your devotion with his actions or with words? Trust his actions but verify his words.
768. Beware Red Flags
