Luvmyhair, I find it easier to comb my hair while rinsing out the conditioner under the strength of the shower spray. Sometimes I'll comb with the conditioner and then rinse. Either way, I use a seamless comb so my hair will not snag. HTH.
Also you can be over mositurizing your hair ( too soft). You hair needs some elasticity and resistant. Try a protein treament or protein deep condition. Balance is key
