auparavant
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Well, the ex has remarried in his country. Mazal tov...I'm not jealous. I would never wish him on a cockroach. But....I get this feeling. Before we were finally divorced, I think he was crying to his family about xyz (his fault) and wanted to stay. He eventually went back home to have them pamper him..but they set him up to marry a friend of their sister who wants to come to the states. Some of his family told me so. He even admitted it, scared to tell me he remarried. Why? I intend to. But anyhoo, he was using his chronic condition as some sort of excuse, not eating, passing out etc. He squandered his money and had to pay a lawyer for multiple speeding tickets and driving with no license. Suspended for 6 months. I think this was part of it. He's become horribly unstable. So, to make a long story short, I get the feeling he's going to stay there - just something in my spirit. Problem? My daughter told me today she's afraid he's going to stay in "Cush" as well. I haven't prompted them and they've not overheard my discussions with my cousin. Even the older son away at school said it a couple of times. I was just silent.
Well, in case he does, how do we break it to the rest of the younger ones? It's not going to be easy. It's a definite possibility...and it could be due to illness if he doesn't care for himself right there. He might be stuck. How would you deal with it? Seek counseling? I'm ok with it but I have children. Just in case...sigh...he just won't go away with all these problems.
Well, in case he does, how do we break it to the rest of the younger ones? It's not going to be easy. It's a definite possibility...and it could be due to illness if he doesn't care for himself right there. He might be stuck. How would you deal with it? Seek counseling? I'm ok with it but I have children. Just in case...sigh...he just won't go away with all these problems.
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