There may be something to that. I met me ex online and we just took it from there.
I noticed that when Libra men get angry or depressed, they shut down and dont like to talk. Then if you bother them, being a Cappie I want to know whats going on at all times lol, he blows up. When they get angry its not pretty, then my ex gets all apologetic afterward. Libra men get really scary when they are angry.
My ex had dated a Cappie before me, and his grandmother is a cappie who raised him. I think he saw capricorn women as the ideal because it seems to be all he attract.
dealing with one now and Im already over it.
Lol you need to read this
http://forums.naani.com/content/born-rotten-day-libra
I saw it on Saturday and cracked up
I'm a Capricorn and I was in a relationship with a Libra for about a year. We hit it off instantly. We had the same ideas about love, life and family.
We discussed what we wanted in marriage and our ideas about raising children on the first date. Within a month he asked me to move in with him (I declined). He wanted to get married just a few months later. He was a bit awkward and nerdy, but he would go to great lengths to please me. He was playful, talkative and the man couldn't sit still for five minutes.
Downside: He had a horrible temper and started fights with absolutely everyone - his boss, his mom, his sister, his neighbors, complete strangers and, of course, me.
It became evident that he was painfully insecure and lashed out at others to feel powerful and in control. If my opinion differed from his then he thought it was time to hurl insults and start name-calling. I don't like to argue, but that didn't stop anything. This man would work himself into frenzy and yell and curse and the second I told him I was out of there he would break down into tears and beg me not to leave him.
His favorite line was, "Please don't give up on me!" He would yell this in desperation just seconds after he calmed down.
I couldn't take it anymore. He seemed like the total package, but my god, that man wasn't happy unless he was in the middle of some type of chaos.
I'm fairly calm and subdued, but I'm sure others would describe me as cold and somewhat distant. The detachment of a Capricorn paired with the often unstable emotions and sloppy outbursts of a Libra are not a good match.
Note: I don't think all Libras are unstable. My sister is a Libra and she is the sweetest, most gentle soul you'll ever meet. But I'll never date another Libra man.
Exactly! My Libra ex would say one thing and two days later would change his mind. It was hard to know where I stood with him. He also had a hard time sticking with one profession. He is a dreamer and never can decide on a solid career. He wanted to be an actor, then a fireman, then a football player lol.
Another thing that annoyed me is that he could never give me a straigght answer about anything. If I asked him, "Do you miss me" when we were away from each other, he would reply"I miss everyone." I would tell him to be specific to me and he would continue to say "I miss everyone and you."
If he would tell me something, he would always put a "but" at the end of it. For example, "I love you, but you're so emotional." All of this used to drive me up a wall with him. Somehow though, it made me crave him. Whenever he called I would nose dive for the phone. LOL! The sad thing is a Libra knows he's wanted and irresistable. If I told him I loved him he would say "Everybody loves me."
They are extemely vain and hard to figure out. They would easily talk about themselves and their issures for hours, but feel like you are being "selfish" to start talking about yourself. Somehow he always knew when I was contemplating moving on without me saying a word, and would find a charming way to bring me back to loving him. I still have no idea how he does that. Eventhough he is vain and quite annoying, Libras have a very soft heart and deep down inside they crave love. They do, however fear opening up to love and being vulnerable to someone else.
I think a cappie starts to take on a sort of mother figure to a Libra, or at least I did with my ex. Whenever he was in pain, I just wanted to comfort him, hold him. Oddly enough he wanted that from me too and would just melt into my arms and stay there.
My aunt has been married to a capricorn for years and she's a Libra. I believe it's been 30 years for them, but although Libras and Caps can last a very long time, sometimes the passion and love that was once there fades and there is so much turmoil it is hard to stay in love.
Lol, Libra men are like crack?! I must have run into the wrong Libra.
He was very arrogant, but didn't have the swag or looks to back it up. I was clearly the prize in the relationship and I think that's part of what fueled his tantrums.
I love Capricorn men, Sagittarius men, Scorpio men and Virgo men. But Virgos share some of the whiny and overly emotional traits of Libra so we start out in total bliss and end up hating each other.
