Capricorn women who have dated libra men.

StarScream35

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I know there have been some threads about various pairings and stuff but I wanted to start one specifically for Cap ladies and Libra men. I'm one of those Cap ladies who ALWAYS seems to attract libra men and one of the ladies here mentioned Caps and Libs are always attracted to each other. So I'm interested in your experiences and some patterns you keep noticing with Libra men.
 
My ex is a Libra, but hes the only one I ever dated. I found him and other libras charming, funny, and had swag.

My libra was very cocky and felt like he was the best at everything. The only issue I had was that we never saw eye to eye on key things. I asked a libra male friend once why we always have issues and he broke it down.

We are opposite signs, so that makes us drawn to each other but repulsed. The way we go about explaining ourselves in an argument, etc is very different.

I will always love my Libra, but we just werent good for each other and Im not sure I will ever date another Libra again.
 
My ex is a Libra, but hes the only one I ever dated. I found him and other libras charming, funny, and had swag.

My libra was very cocky and felt like he was the best at everything.
The only issue I had was that we never saw eye to eye on key things. I asked a libra male friend once why we always have issues and he broke it down.

We are opposite signs, so that makes us drawn to each other but repulsed. The way we go about explaining ourselves in an argument, etc is very different.

I will always love my Libra, but we just werent good for each other and Im not sure I will ever date another Libra again.

I'm not a cap, I'm a gemini but I can relate to the bolded. Dh is a libra and the same way. Sorry op, I know you only wanted to hear from caps.
 
My ex is a Libra, but hes the only one I ever dated. I found him and other libras charming, funny, and had swag.

My libra was very cocky and felt like he was the best at everything. The only issue I had was that we never saw eye to eye on key things. I asked a libra male friend once why we always have issues and he broke it down.

We are opposite signs, so that makes us drawn to each other but repulsed. The way we go about explaining ourselves in an argument, etc is very different.

I will always love my Libra, but we just werent good for each other and Im not sure I will ever date another Libra again.


It's the bolded which made me stop dead in my tracks. My man and I have this very problem. It's like night and day when we are trying to explain things BUT we eventually get there but dang!

This is a side note. Back when I was online dating, I noticed most of the profiles that seemed to always jump out at me were all Libras. I started noticing it shortly after breaking it off with this crazy libra I was dating. Then I thought, maybe more male Libras tend to date online more? I dunno, but it was definitely something I noticed.
 
I'm not a cap, I'm a gemini but I can relate to the bolded. Dh is a libra and the same way. Sorry op, I know you only wanted to hear from caps.

No prob. I don't mind hearing from non-Caps. Apparently Libra men are quite interesting so come and tell us more.
 
It's the bolded which made me stop dead in my tracks. My man and I have this very problem. It's like night and day when we are trying to explain things BUT we eventually get there but dang!

This is a side note. Back when I was online dating, I noticed most of the profiles that seemed to always jump out at me were all Libras. I started noticing it shortly after breaking it off with this crazy libra I was dating. Then I thought, maybe more male Libras tend to date online more? I dunno, but it was definitely something I noticed.


There may be something to that. I met me ex online and we just took it from there. :lol:

I noticed that when Libra men get angry or depressed, they shut down and dont like to talk. Then if you bother them, being a Cappie I want to know whats going on at all times lol, he blows up. When they get angry its not pretty, then my ex gets all apologetic afterward. Libra men get really scary when they are angry. :nono:

My ex had dated a Cappie before me, and his grandmother is a cappie who raised him. I think he saw capricorn women as the ideal because it seems to be all he attract.
 
There may be something to that. I met me ex online and we just took it from there. :lol:

I noticed that when Libra men get angry or depressed, they shut down and dont like to talk. Then if you bother them, being a Cappie I want to know whats going on at all times lol, he blows up. When they get angry its not pretty, then my ex gets all apologetic afterward. Libra men get really scary when they are angry. :nono:

My ex had dated a Cappie before me, and his grandmother is a cappie who raised him. I think he saw capricorn women as the ideal because it seems to be all he attract.

WOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 
My ex is a Libra, but hes the only one I ever dated. I found him and other libras charming, funny, and had swag.

My libra was very cocky and felt like he was the best at everything. The only issue I had was that we never saw eye to eye on key things. I asked a libra male friend once why we always have issues and he broke it down.

We are opposite signs, so that makes us drawn to each other but repulsed. The way we go about explaining ourselves in an argument, etc is very different.

I will always love my Libra, but we just werent good for each other and Im not sure I will ever date another Libra again.


Sorry OP, not a Cap, I am a taurus and I have this same issue with my bf of almost 2 yrs with my bf.
 
Sorry OP, not a Cap, I am a taurus and I have this same issue with my bf of almost 2 yrs with my bf.

Is he a libra? How is your compatibility over all. One thing I notice about Libra men is they are sooooooooooooooooo moody. It's odd for me because I'm one of those rare women whose mood is really consistent even during my cycle but having a moody man is almost damn near frightening.
 
Is he a libra? How is your compatibility over all. One thing I notice about Libra men is they are sooooooooooooooooo moody. It's odd for me because I'm one of those rare women whose mood is really consistent even during my cycle but having a moody man is almost damn near frightening.

Yes, he is a libra. And we bring out the best and worst of each other. When its good, its great, and I love him. When its bad, its really bad. I just told him this morning he is moody when he first wakes up. I am learning to just ignore sometimes cause he just likes to hear himself talk. But I won't lie, we have been together almost 2 yrs, and I am sitting here re-evaluating if I want to continue
 
Yes, he is a libra. And we bring out the best and worst of each other. When its good, its great, and I love him. When its bad, its really bad. I just told him this morning he is moody when he first wakes up. I am learning to just ignore sometimes cause he just likes to hear himself talk. But I won't lie, we have been together almost 2 yrs, and I am sitting here re-evaluating if I want to continue


To the bolded. This is another thing where I can relate. Libras are wonderful yet difficult and I have often felt the same way, should I even stay or just walk away? It's such a hard thing because they truly are wonderful but the mood swings, boasting~~cause lord knows they like to talk and boast and the hot then cold thing drives me insane! It's like there is no in between with them.
 
To the bolded. This is another thing where I can relate. Libras are wonderful yet difficult and I have often felt the same way, should I even stay or just walk away? It's such a hard thing because they truly are wonderful but the mood swings, boasting~~cause lord knows they like to talk and boast and the hot then cold thing drives me insane! It's like there is no in between with them.


Exactly. They are so indecisive. It's hard to put your trust in a relationship because there mind changes with the wind. I find it very difficult for my bf to make decisions, and it drives me nuts. But yet he says I live in the gray. Which is funny because I said the same thing about him.
 
Exactly. They are so indecisive. It's hard to put your trust in a relationship because there mind changes with the wind. I find it very difficult for my bf to make decisions, and it drives me nuts. But yet he says I live in the gray. Which is funny because I said the same thing about him.


Exactly! My Libra ex would say one thing and two days later would change his mind. It was hard to know where I stood with him. He also had a hard time sticking with one profession. He is a dreamer and never can decide on a solid career. He wanted to be an actor, then a fireman, then a football player lol.

Another thing that annoyed me is that he could never give me a straigght answer about anything. If I asked him, "Do you miss me" when we were away from each other, he would reply"I miss everyone." I would tell him to be specific to me and he would continue to say "I miss everyone and you." :rolleyes:

If he would tell me something, he would always put a "but" at the end of it. For example, "I love you, but you're so emotional." All of this used to drive me up a wall with him. Somehow though, it made me crave him. Whenever he called I would nose dive for the phone. LOL! The sad thing is a Libra knows he's wanted and irresistable. If I told him I loved him he would say "Everybody loves me." :wallbash:

They are extemely vain and hard to figure out. They would easily talk about themselves and their issures for hours, but feel like you are being "selfish" to start talking about yourself. Somehow he always knew when I was contemplating moving on without me saying a word, and would find a charming way to bring me back to loving him. I still have no idea how he does that. Eventhough he is vain and quite annoying, Libras have a very soft heart and deep down inside they crave love. They do, however fear opening up to love and being vulnerable to someone else.

I think a cappie starts to take on a sort of mother figure to a Libra, or at least I did with my ex. Whenever he was in pain, I just wanted to comfort him, hold him. Oddly enough he wanted that from me too and would just melt into my arms and stay there.

My aunt has been married to a capricorn for years and she's a Libra. I believe it's been 30 years for them, but although Libras and Caps can last a very long time, sometimes the passion and love that was once there fades and there is so much turmoil it is hard to stay in love.
 
I'm a Capricorn and I was in a relationship with a Libra for about a year. We hit it off instantly. We had the same ideas about love, life and family.

We discussed what we wanted in marriage and our ideas about raising children on the first date. Within a month he asked me to move in with him (I declined). He wanted to get married just a few months later. He was a bit awkward and nerdy, but he would go to great lengths to please me. He was playful, talkative and the man couldn't sit still for five minutes.

Downside: He had a horrible temper and started fights with absolutely everyone - his boss, his mom, his sister, his neighbors, complete strangers and, of course, me.

It became evident that he was painfully insecure and lashed out at others to feel powerful and in control. If my opinion differed from his then he thought it was time to hurl insults and start name-calling. I don't like to argue, but that didn't stop anything. This man would work himself into frenzy and yell and curse and the second I told him I was out of there he would break down into tears and beg me not to leave him. :nono:

His favorite line was, "Please don't give up on me!" He would yell this in desperation just seconds after he calmed down.

I couldn't take it anymore. He seemed like the total package, but my god, that man wasn't happy unless he was in the middle of some type of chaos.

I'm fairly calm and subdued, but I'm sure others would describe me as cold and somewhat distant. The detachment of a Capricorn paired with the often unstable emotions and sloppy outbursts of a Libra are not a good match.

Note: I don't think all Libras are unstable. My sister is a Libra and she is the sweetest, most gentle soul you'll ever meet. But I'll never date another Libra man.
 
I'm a Capricorn and I was in a relationship with a Libra for about a year. We hit it off instantly. We had the same ideas about love, life and family.

We discussed what we wanted in marriage and our ideas about raising children on the first date. Within a month he asked me to move in with him (I declined). He wanted to get married just a few months later. He was a bit awkward and nerdy, but he would go to great lengths to please me. He was playful, talkative and the man couldn't sit still for five minutes.

Downside: He had a horrible temper and started fights with absolutely everyone - his boss, his mom, his sister, his neighbors, complete strangers and, of course, me.

It became evident that he was painfully insecure and lashed out at others to feel powerful and in control. If my opinion differed from his then he thought it was time to hurl insults and start name-calling. I don't like to argue, but that didn't stop anything. This man would work himself into frenzy and yell and curse and the second I told him I was out of there he would break down into tears and beg me not to leave him. :nono:

His favorite line was, "Please don't give up on me!" He would yell this in desperation just seconds after he calmed down.

I couldn't take it anymore. He seemed like the total package, but my god, that man wasn't happy unless he was in the middle of some type of chaos.

I'm fairly calm and subdued, but I'm sure others would describe me as cold and somewhat distant. The detachment of a Capricorn paired with the often unstable emotions and sloppy outbursts of a Libra are not a good match.

Note: I don't think all Libras are unstable. My sister is a Libra and she is the sweetest, most gentle soul you'll ever meet. But I'll never date another Libra man.


LOL @ the bolded yes! I would say something and have no idea I even insulted my Libra and suddenly he would say the colded, most mean spirited things to me and Im like where that come from? He would say," You mustve said something to make me mad." He was always trying to compete with me and top me at everythihng! And if I ever disagreed here comes the insults.

And yes once he's done he would say Im sorry and if you love me you wont giv up, Id never give up on you.
 
Exactly! My Libra ex would say one thing and two days later would change his mind. It was hard to know where I stood with him. He also had a hard time sticking with one profession. He is a dreamer and never can decide on a solid career. He wanted to be an actor, then a fireman, then a football player lol.

Another thing that annoyed me is that he could never give me a straigght answer about anything. If I asked him, "Do you miss me" when we were away from each other, he would reply"I miss everyone." I would tell him to be specific to me and he would continue to say "I miss everyone and you." :rolleyes:

If he would tell me something, he would always put a "but" at the end of it. For example, "I love you, but you're so emotional." All of this used to drive me up a wall with him. Somehow though, it made me crave him. Whenever he called I would nose dive for the phone. LOL! The sad thing is a Libra knows he's wanted and irresistable. If I told him I loved him he would say "Everybody loves me." :wallbash:

They are extemely vain and hard to figure out. They would easily talk about themselves and their issures for hours, but feel like you are being "selfish" to start talking about yourself. Somehow he always knew when I was contemplating moving on without me saying a word, and would find a charming way to bring me back to loving him. I still have no idea how he does that. Eventhough he is vain and quite annoying, Libras have a very soft heart and deep down inside they crave love. They do, however fear opening up to love and being vulnerable to someone else.

I think a cappie starts to take on a sort of mother figure to a Libra, or at least I did with my ex. Whenever he was in pain, I just wanted to comfort him, hold him. Oddly enough he wanted that from me too and would just melt into my arms and stay there.

My aunt has been married to a capricorn for years and she's a Libra. I believe it's been 30 years for them, but although Libras and Caps can last a very long time, sometimes the passion and love that was once there fades and there is so much turmoil it is hard to stay in love.


The bold is the truth!!! i just told my bf last night he got the game f'ed all the way up if he thinks he is the prize to me. I am in the prize. Its definitely a battle of wills with us and that's what get us into trouble. I am a stubborn taurus who likes routine and structure, and he is a crazy libra who is a dreamer and goes with the flow. We say the same things to each other, but its like we still speak two different languages.

Second bolded is the truth as well.
 
I've come to the conclusion that Libra men are like crack. One hit of them and you are addicted. You know you shouldn't try them but you do and you can't get off of them. The high is so good but so is the low but because they work their magic so well, you remember the high better than the low. It's weird and almost like a psychedelic trip filled with Purple Hazes and Electric Feels! It's weird how they give you just enough to keep you hooked but then pull back and keep you wondering!
 
Lol, Libra men are like crack?! I must have run into the wrong Libra. :lol:

He was very arrogant, but didn't have the swag or looks to back it up. I was clearly the prize in the relationship and I think that's part of what fueled his tantrums.

I love Capricorn men, Sagittarius men, Scorpio men and Virgo men. But Virgos share some of the whiny and overly emotional traits of Libra so we start out in total bliss and end up hating each other.
 
Lol, Libra men are like crack?! I must have run into the wrong Libra. :lol:

He was very arrogant, but didn't have the swag or looks to back it up. I was clearly the prize in the relationship and I think that's part of what fueled his tantrums.

I love Capricorn men, Sagittarius men, Scorpio men and Virgo men. But Virgos share some of the whiny and overly emotional traits of Libra so we start out in total bliss and end up hating each other.

Ugh dont get me started on Virgos. They are without a doubt the worst zodiac I have ever dated, and Ive dated 2. I dont like to use the word hate, but yeah that's pretty much where it ended with both of these relationships. The last one even text me saying he hopes I die. wtf? The virgo men I've had got issues.

My libra, although we didnt last, I dont think I could ever hate him eventhough he put me through alot. He's like the sourpatch kid commercials, he does crazy things then charm you.

I find it funny that my ex doesnt even believe in zodiacs, but always finds himself involved with an earth sign mainly capricorns.

I think the best men for capricorn women are pisces, scorpios, and sagittarius.

Has any capricorn ladies ever dated an aquarius? There was a thread awhile back that indicated a cappie woman and aquarius man are likely to stay married.
 
Wow reading about Libra traits really gave me insight into the last guy I was involved with. So many things rang true. Thanks, OP.

I just read the astrology zone and it says Libra and Virgo are a good match. WHOMP WHOMP.... :-(
 
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Another trait about libras....................once their minds are made up about something, that's it! You can argue with them and back your argument up with stats, research or whatever, they aren't having it!
 
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