can you look into your So's eyes when coloring?

i haven't been able to master that. i get weird out when someone looks at me. but i don't feel comfortable with someone looking at me period when i am not clothed.

but i have read that the connection can be intense an amazing.
 
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Of course! My SO kisses with his eyes open too. It's like a challenge to look into his eyes when we're making out! I love it.
 
It always feels so intense to me looking in each others eyes. We don't always do it, but when we do, it seems like we're bonding.

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shortdub78 said:
i haven't been able to master that. i get weird out when someone looks at me. but i don't feel comfortable with someone looking at me period when i not clothed.

but i have read that the connection can me intense an amazing.
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It is. It's definitely a connection/chemistry thing. It's like saying "I love you" without words. I had to feel completely comfortable with him and with myself to allow for that type of vulnerability. Plus, the eye gazing is accompanied by hand squeezing, rolling into different positions, and kissing. Just plain staring would freak me out. :lol:
 
Good thread. I'm a pretty shy person and It's hard for me to make prolonged eye contact with people in general. :ohwell:
 
The minute I fell in love with him and when we are making love I can and do.

Its intimacy and boy can it brings about a satisfaction that no orgasm can.

True Intimacy is very fulfilling and satisfying.
 
Yes, but I only do it when I'm truly in love with that person, I don't want to share that kind of connection and passion with someone I'm not truly feeling. And it's usually followed by some intense kissing or him calling my name. :grin:
 
I do, IMO I'm not going to be intimate with a man unless I am feeling him. I think that when your comfortable with yourself it just comes naturally, maybe because it's an intimate time and you naturally are looking at your mate to see their reaction/how they're feeling and to let them know what your feeling.
 
gabulldawg said:
Good thread. I'm a pretty shy person and It's hard for me to make prolonged eye contact with people in general. :ohwell:
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me too!! it used to get on my bf nerves that I would never look him in the eyes. And whenever he looked at me I would turn away. But as I have gotten more comfortable with him, i can look back into eyes. He always tell me I have gotten way better at look at him.
 
i always keep the lights off. i guess doing that within the act just seems too real to me. like my partner seeing the real me.
 
Lights off, IMO, is fine. But not pitch black. We open the blinds a little and allow the street light to come through. It makes dh's skin glow and is just enough to see each other's faces.
 
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