Hairsnob
Deep Thinker
Can a relationship work by going backwards? In other words, can you go from live-in girlfriend to living apart girlfriend?
A friend (she's not a close friend but we talk every now and then) told me she recently moved out of her apartment she shared with her live-in boyfriend (of 2 yrs). She didn't give me the WHOLE story of why she moved out but it's something about him complaining of her going out drinking with her friends and other irreconcileable (sp) differences. He asked her to leave because it wasn't working out anymore.
The word on the street is that he wanted his freedom and is now seeing other women. My other girlfriend also saw him with his ex. Another story I heard on the streets is that he physicallly abused her and that's the real reason she moved out. Of course she didn't tell me that part so we'll never know the truth. She did tell me he shoved her before.
She's now living with her parents. Here is the thing. She tells me she still goes over his place and cleans and cooks his meals for the week and of course sexes him up. Of course, she thinks they're still together but just living apart and she thinks he'll appreciate her doing these things for him and want her back. My take on this is that he's got the best of both worlds and he's using her.
Oh yeah, she told me she lost her job which was coincidentally right before he asked her to leave. A mutual friend told me he said he broke up with her because he didn't see a future with her anymore and said she was a drunk. (She has been known to drink a lot)
She has an excuse for everything when I give my opinions on her leaving her home and still keeping up his place. Of course he'll want her there to sex him up and cook and clean. Then the next day he probably has another chick there. Luckily I don't talk to her often so it's not hard trying to mind my business.
I tell you, I really hate being single but after hearing all this I have to say it's not so bad LOL.
Just wanted to share. Feel free to give your opinions on this.
A friend (she's not a close friend but we talk every now and then) told me she recently moved out of her apartment she shared with her live-in boyfriend (of 2 yrs). She didn't give me the WHOLE story of why she moved out but it's something about him complaining of her going out drinking with her friends and other irreconcileable (sp) differences. He asked her to leave because it wasn't working out anymore.
The word on the street is that he wanted his freedom and is now seeing other women. My other girlfriend also saw him with his ex. Another story I heard on the streets is that he physicallly abused her and that's the real reason she moved out. Of course she didn't tell me that part so we'll never know the truth. She did tell me he shoved her before.
She's now living with her parents. Here is the thing. She tells me she still goes over his place and cleans and cooks his meals for the week and of course sexes him up. Of course, she thinks they're still together but just living apart and she thinks he'll appreciate her doing these things for him and want her back. My take on this is that he's got the best of both worlds and he's using her.
Oh yeah, she told me she lost her job which was coincidentally right before he asked her to leave. A mutual friend told me he said he broke up with her because he didn't see a future with her anymore and said she was a drunk. (She has been known to drink a lot)
She has an excuse for everything when I give my opinions on her leaving her home and still keeping up his place. Of course he'll want her there to sex him up and cook and clean. Then the next day he probably has another chick there. Luckily I don't talk to her often so it's not hard trying to mind my business.
I tell you, I really hate being single but after hearing all this I have to say it's not so bad LOL.
Just wanted to share. Feel free to give your opinions on this.
