So I got a touch-up today. I was trying to hold out until the first Update Date (March 31st) but my new growth was not having it. And it seems that every salon I've been to, the stylist does not know how to handle hair. I so so miss my old stylist back home, he was an absolute dream to work with, especially since he was my stylist since I was a kid so I have never had a setback with him.
And since moving to Sheffield, my mother had handled all of my touch-ups but now I'm in university and mum's not here anymore so I've been looking around for a regular salon to go to. It has been difficult. The first salon I went to, the stylist was alright but her prices were ridiculous and being a poor uni student, my pockets couldn't handle that. The second stylist was. She didn't base my scalp (which resulted in some burns, luckily they were very minor and healed quickly), she was kind of rough with my hair and the worst part is, she tried to spread the relaxer over the length of my hair. I'm a very, very quiet person but I just had to speak up and stop her. I found it weird that she even tried that because the lady she was working on right before me only had the relaxer put on her new growth.
And then there's today.... Once again I searched for another salon and I was hoping this stylist would be better because the salon itself looked very "high-class" so to speak (very clean, nicely decorated, etc) but I had the worst experience with her. She detangled from root to tip (which almost gave me a heart attack but for some reason I kept quiet) and was OMG SO ROUGH. It was as if she was trying to pull all of my hair right out of my scalp. It was the same rough treatment while she was putting the relaxer on (positive side, she actually based my scalp) and she tangled my hair something fierce while washing it and tried to detangle my very wet hair with a small, rat-tailed comb, once again from root to tip. But I couldn't take it anymore and had to start speaking up. So I had to ask her if she could please use a bigger toothed comb, then I had to ask her if she could stop being so rough, if she could try detangling from the bottom up, if she could turn down the heat on the blow dryer etc. I didn't want to sound bossy (I'm sure I did) but if I had let her continue doing what she was doing I don't know what could have happened to my hair.
I'm surprised I still have hair on my head. Lesson learned, speak up as soon as I don't like what's being done to my hair, don't wait.