For the ponytail method, you want to first detangle with a wide toothcomb, then follow up the scalp area with sturdy rat tail comb ( I detest those flimsy .25 cent joints!!! Get the ones that are made of that thick sturdy plastic!) and then gently detangle the length w/the wide tooth again. And use one of those soft brushes to finish, and smooth the set. You don't want to brush really hard or brush all your hair... just the top, very gently, to smooth. I got my brush from Sally's... and the actual name brand is Soft Brush.