Broke & In love

Amour

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Excuse the title :lachen:

I was just wondering how you loved up people keep the romance flowing on a tight budget?

My relationship could defo do with some romance, but my imagination can not stretch considering things which does not cost $$$
 
Just how badly off are you?

You could do romantic home-cooked meals. Each of you can make a part of the meal, light candles, dim the lights, play some good music. Then settle down and watch a movie, you can get redbox films for $1 a night. Keep it just one night.

Depending on where you live, you can go out and have a picnic...or a romantic walk in the park. When DH and I were in So Cal we would walk on the beach at night....or sit up on the hilly areas of the city looking down at the rest of the city. *sigh*

I don't know if there are any free attractions where you live...museums...that type of stuff.
 
Not too badly off, just dont want spend too much money. Was considering a long wkend to Paris but thats gonna be too expensive.
 
Indoor picnics
Lover's game (from adult stores)
Get a hotel room, set it up like Paris or just a very romantic setting and surprise him with it...It's not Paris but at least it gets you out of the house...Prelude to all of this could be dinner. And this is dessert. Twerk it.
 
I love board games, bike riding, summer free concerts in the park, museum,free or inexpensive wine tasting around the city, cultural festivals (sample free food and drink), movies before 5pm, love letter's via snail mail (they are the best), flea markets. Read the free entertainment paper if you city has one. In Pittsburgh we have the "City Paper".

I usually listen to the yt folks I work with to see what they are doing, that is how I find out about fun free stuff. They have some undergroung pipeline of free activities I swear. The ex and I actually made beer. It was horrible, but we had so much fun.

A indoor naked picnic always makes a man smile. Don't worry about your body, I am plus sized and I have never been turned down. Naked and Woman together is enough.
 
DH and I can talk for hours. We don't really need to be entertained. Are you at that point in your relationship yet?

Buy some alcohol, make some fun drinks together, and rent the funniest movies you can find. The alcohol and the comedy is a great combination.

Play scrabble. It takes hours, it's fun, and can be quite intimate.

Exercise together. Working out at a gym together is fun, as well as running outside or going for a long walk. Have a dog? Take him with you. A dog always provides a good laugh cause they do some stupid things.

Go to www.epicurious.com and pick one of their menus, go shopping together for everything you need to create the meal, and then cook it together while sipping wine.

Just like a book club, pick up 2 of the same books, agree to read the same number of chapters, and then spend an evening discussing it.

Work on a project together. Like planting a garden, painting a room, etc.

Give each other massages.
 
-my dollar store sells food :look:
-Andre makes a nice peach champagne for $3.99
-Fresh and easy marks down flowers to .98 when they are a lil old
just pluck off a few petals
-check your city/county websites for free concerts in the park load a cooler and go
-my airport has a special lot just for folks who like to watch the planes take off
-does your city have a nice big fountain you could meet up and sit next to and
have an outdoor meal by
-check the parks and rec websites for ideas too
-call your local jazz station and ask if they have any free events comming up
-find out if anyone you know has a timeshare you can borrow

i will edit if i think of more

eta you can come to vegas and stay at the Paris
take pics outside and eat at the cafe one morning
then take an evening and go up the Eifel tower and
have dinner
 
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I agree w/ the stuff that has already been mentioned. My husband & I can just talk for hours. We also watch movies that we have at home & we play Scrabble (healthynhappy, you are right. It does last for hours). We sometimes go to Target First Saturdays at the Brooklyn Museum. It's fun and free.

Depending on where you live, you can search for free poetry readings & art exhibit openings. There is also lots of free stuff at the Schomburg Museum, if you're in NYC.
 
Yeah its getting warm so you can hang out outside! Are you by any bodies of water? I love hanging out by the water when its warm. :yep:
 
Picnic, parks, beaches, and watching movies on HBO.

ETA: Game nights are fun too, even when he beats me at scrabble.
 
Take a long drive somewhere and make stops along the way. Talk, stop at a bakery or cafe, hold hands, talk about your hopes and dreams for and with one another,.......then slowly head back!

Nothing is more romantic then connecting with one another. Love really doesn't cost much when you think about it! :grin::grin:
 
wow you ladies are awesome!!! Thanks a million, some really great ideas :yep:

I'm getting excited, I'm gonna start planning some of the things you mentioned.
 
I love intimate picnics by the lake, or on the living room floor.
Make up a treasure hunt for him at home that leads to a romantic dinner.
You can borrow movies from the library.
Get dolled up and dance for him.
Get in the car together and just drive. No specific destination needed.
Long walks in the neighborhood, downtown or somewhere scenic in your city.
Check out newspapers for classes you can take together, or what neighborhood events are taking place.
Leave sexy notes for him to find.
Naughty text messages
Sybaris or a romantic bed and breakfast
Board games
Wine tastings
Matinee movies in a very exclusive part of town, then walk through the neighborhood afterward
My city has a lot of improv plays that are fun and cheap
There is massage school in my city that always has rates and specials going on
 
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