I didn't get it either...
I just thought he was angry that she had a 'stupid' looking face... hence the comment.
*when you don't have a clue about his ultimate intentions for your relationship
Yes he put them in. I was the one who bought them but we kept them in the nightstand by his side of the bed. He probably did it while I was out running errands. I was looking for something else in the drawer when I found them. They looked kind of dry in the pack and the package looked deflated and that's what tipped me off.
When I confronted him, he didn't even try to deny it. Just kept saying he didn't see the point of waiting until after age 25 (he was 23 almost 24) to have a baby. Then tried to flip it on me like I was crazy for not wanting to have his baby at 22. I packed and left 2 days later. I don't think he was trying to trap me to stay with him, but he did seem to have a problem with me wanting to work and go to school. So maybe he was trying to trap me to the house.
Vanthie said:Well the last partner I broke up with..
I woke up one morning and realised I didn't deserve it. I felt there was nothing wrong with my personality. I felt stronger than I ever felt. Something changed. I refused to cry anymore. I actually still live in the same house as him (a year and a half later lol) and we're on friendly terms after the bitterness died. I didn't go back once, even through the 8 month sex drought. Don't look back!
Our basic personality differences became very clear towards the end of the relationship. Be aware when things are dragging out and just repeating themselves over and over. Release miserable relationships, learn from them and accept loving from someone more suitable.
cami88 said:The first time I broke up with my bf was when he told me that:
1. He had cheated on his ex wife and never told her about it. But that if he cheated on me he would tell me........
2. He told me he didn't think he would get married again because he wasn't a 'one woman man'. Now why would you tell me that? I would be a fool to stay with someone who admitted outright that they cannot be with just one woman.
So we broke up, then 2 months later I got pregnant....we weren't even together. *sigh* A month after our baby was born we got back together thinking we should at least try to make it work. Then 3 months after that I went to visit him where he lives (out of state) and the trip was horrible. We argued the entire time, so we broke up again after that.
Anakinsmomma said:Is it ok if i tell the story Of when I shouldve broke it off? With my college fiancé...
Well actually, he broke up with me. I was starting Preliminary wedding planning and he freaked out... Although HE was the one who wanted to get married by the next year. I was thinking of breaking it off then because his reaction proved he wasnt serious, a liar, weak willed and wasting my time and not someone i wanted to spend my life with. Warning number two was when he said "you can love more than one person, but a relationship is about who you can tolerate". Then i said you should find the one you love cuz i dont want to be tolerated my whole life. He said he did love me Then two months later he decided that yea, he was in love with his best (female) friend after all and thanks for teaching him how to love so he can love her the right way
With the BF before DH, I was in the police academy and he was still getting tickets and not paying and smoking weed. It seemed to get worse once he "knew" that I could prevent his arrest (umm no) and I just knew he would get me jammed up eventually. Add that to the fact that he just wasn't into me anymore and was being a jerk in other ways. It was painful but I'm so glad and proud that I had the strength to move on.
Man, was I a stupid doormat
Under the sane roof? Then? Now? Why? That had to be double the temptation.
Vanthie said:Long story, mostly financial/health reasons and having no better options at the time (including family) till late last year. We live in a shared house where people have separate tenancies. Had another financial blow in January, so I'm still here. Thats just been sorted out so will prob be gone by July ish after exams.
He wants to stay in this house for the foreseeable future and I don't really see why I should move out until I'm in an OK situation if that makes sense.
Temptation wise there's been none whatsoever. When I break up with someone I don't want them in any way (romantic or sexual) anymore. Not sure why, but they get the cold shoulder