BREAKING UP IS HARD TO DO!

[sandee1on1]

What are some NICE ways that you have broken it off with your significant other?

 

[LunadeMiel]

Waiting for answers. I need to know too.

 

[Ediese]

You'll have to check out my thread for the whole scoop. It was great. lol We were at a restaurant, and felt that I couldn't take it anymore. I paid my part of the bill. I told him that "I'm not going to do this anymore. I'm DONE". I got up, gave him my infamous smile and left.

http://www.longhaircareforum.com/showthread.php?t=364051

 

[Murjani]

Just be honest. I don' think there really is a nice way to do it, because it's still gonna hurt. I would set aside a time where you two can talk one on one, then let him know your reasons for ending the relationship.

 

[Nyssa28]

Write him a letter.....Have him to come over and give it to him.

 

[Highly Favored8]

WOW relationship fell apart and we grew apart. Then broke it off.

 

[sandee1on1]

You'll have to check out my thread for the whole scoop. It was great. lol We were at a restaurant, and felt that I couldn't take it anymore. I paid my part of the bill. I told him that "I'm not going to do this anymore. I'm DONE". I got up, gave him my infamous smile and left.

http://www.longhaircareforum.com/showthread.php?t=364051

I saw your thread! Definitely a classy way to handle him.

 

[GeorginaSparks]

Just set up a date to talk and tell the person it will not work out.

 

[sandee1on1]

***bump***

 

[JustKiya]

Over dinner (take separate cars, bring any of his stuff that's left at your place with you) is my favorite way. Sometimes, I'll even pay for dinner, too. Simply say that the relationship isn't working out for you the way you need it to be, and even though ya'll have been working on the issues, you just don't have the energy/time/desire to fight through anymore.
Smile sweetly, and dip.

Good luck.

 

[Angelicus]

You all waste too much time. Just call him like I did and say, "It's over. I'm tired. It's time to do something new."

 

[awhyley]

Write him a letter.....Have him to come over and give it to him.

Or rather, just mail it off. If the person is a little 'violent' but you still want to break it off face to face, make sure that it's in a public place. Personally, I don't think that breakups should happen at either home, (the seperate car thing is crucial). They should be short, sweet and sincere.