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dlewis said:I think it all grows about the same.
Sareca, SweetCashew grows about 1" per month.
Sar-I said:Maybe it’s more of a retention issue. It could be genetics but not necessarily a function of race. I have met a few Caucasian girls who couldn’t grow their hair past apl who were just astounded by the fact that I am black and had such long hair. Then again, it could have been due to health issues with them, so I’m really not sure.
ITA! Some people are going to genetically grow faster, but I believe the avg is .5 in/mo...I do believe we are more "retention" challenged , though (generally speaking of course).Sar-I said:Maybe it’s more of a retention issue. It could be genetics but not necessarily a function of race. I have met a few Caucasian girls who couldn’t grow their hair past apl who were just astounded by the fact that I am black and had such long hair. Then again, it could have been due to health issues with them, so I’m really not sure.
Kurlee said:I think its all the same as far as rate, generally, but i think they grow it EASIER.
Kurlee said:I think its all the same as far as rate, generally, but i think they grow it EASIER.
bravenewgirl87 said:Cuz all the products are manufactured to suit THEIR needs
Serenity_Peace said:Hmmm...that's really deep, bravenewgirl87!![]()
OnAHairQuest said:Even if Black hair grew slower than White hair..
What does that REALLY mean?
Its a reason why its hurts folks heart so much to think Black hair doesnt grow as fast as White. Maybe we ought to reassign any premium or supremacy we place on this...
OnAHairQuest said:Even if Black hair grew slower than White hair..
What does that REALLY mean?
Its a reason why its hurts folks heart so much to think Black hair doesnt grow as fast as White. Maybe we ought to reassign any premium or supremacy we place on this...
Serenity_Peace said:But, in all honesty, and yes I'm being honest, it does say something. Not that I base my self worth on what black men say, but one of my good friends asked me why black women have such a hard time growing hair. He seemed to be suggesting that black women can't be as beautiful as a result of our hair differences. I tried to explain to him that it's not true; it's just that our hair is curlier and drier. It does grow, else we would never need relaxers. He's not necessarily stupid, but he's simply bought into the mainstream myth (as we all have) that black women can't have long hair, no matter what they do unless they weave it to achieve it. And whites as well as other races seem perplexed, too, if they see black women with long hair that's theirs. Being on this forum, you and I know that women can and do grow long hair, but it's just trying to convince others that we're no different. It seems as though we struggle more to combat the notion that beauty standards can only achieved by white women. I want to prove them dead WRONG!!
I dont feel the need to convince any one of anything.Serenity_Peace said:But, in all honesty, and yes I'm being honest, it does say something. Not that I base my self worth on what black men say, but one of my good friends asked me why black women have such a hard time growing hair. He seemed to be suggesting that black women can't be as beautiful as a result of our hair differences. I tried to explain to him that it's not true; it's just that our hair is curlier and drier. It does grow, else we would never need relaxers. He's not necessarily stupid, but he's simply bought into the mainstream myth (as we all have) that black women can't have long hair, no matter what they do unless they weave it to achieve it. And whites as well as other races seem perplexed, too, if they see black women with long hair that's theirs. Being on this forum, you and I know that women can and do grow long hair, but it's just trying to convince others that we're no different. It seems as though we struggle more to combat the notion that beauty standards can only achieved by white women. I want to prove them dead WRONG!!
OnAHairQuest said:I dont feel the need to convince any one of anything.
I certainly dont see the point of trying to prove to another ace I am the same as them.
I also dont see anything inherently wrong with us being different, if that is the case.
I am at peace with either scneario.
Asians tend to be shorter. Should they go around showing White folks and misguided Asian folks ...seee !!!! *points at example of tall Asian person*, I am no differnet... I AM JUST LIKE YOU.
If Black hair grows slower and it does so naturally I dont have a problem with that. It is what it is.
Also comparing relaxed Black hair to natural white hair may pose a problem too.
OnAHairQuest said:I dont feel the need to convince any one of anything.
I certainly dont see the point of trying to prove to another ace I am the same as them.
I also dont see anything inherently wrong with us being different, if that is the case.
I am at peace with either scneario.
Asians tend to be shorter. Should they go around showing White folks and misguided Asian folks ...seee !!!! *points at example of tall Asian person*, I am no differnet... I AM JUST LIKE YOU.
If Black hair grows slower and it does so naturally I dont have a problem with that. It is what it is.
Just because a majority of people think it means something doesnt mean it does. Sometimes a majority just means all the fools are on the same side.
@Bravenewgirl87 you bring up a good point about products. That is something I have never thought about. When I went natural I did stop shopping for hair products in the ethnic hair section and my hair thrived. People still dont believe I use suave conditioner.
I think that if it is true that our hair grows as the same rate as other races, it could very well be a matter of product, and lack of education on how to care for the hair well. Also it makes it hard to compare when a majority of Black women mishandle their hair on a consistent basis. Sure we all have our examples of the Black girl who grew 3 feet of hair over the summer, or the White girl who grew 5 feet of hair a week after she shaved her head. But comparing Apples to Apples is very hard in this case. Also comparing relaxed Black hair to natural white hair may pose a problem too.
bravenewgirl87 said:
I don't argue too much about the relaxed vs. natural deal... but i have to be honest.... as long as black people continue to relax, texturize blow-out, etc., we will always have hair struggle. These are methods that are not native to the black scalp and your hair will ALWAYS stuggle to thrive. Not saying that it won't thrive, but I am positive that black women would be able to have the same lackluster approach to their hair and watch the inches grow and grow if they stop putting chemicals in it. Everything knows you can't fail with mother nature. Not only that, but maybe the ethnic hair market would be more reputable if black women were natural. The needs of the consumer would change and they would have to produce items that satisfy.
bravenewgirl87 said:I don't mean to be cocky... but your friend needs to come stick in hand in my hair! I CUT my hair on purpose... and its very healthy and thick. I mean, i am a hairstylist nightmare and their hands are so tired after dealing with this full thick head of hair. My point is that some black women CHOOSE to have short hair.
OnAHairQuest said:I dont feel the need to convince any one of anything.
I certainly dont see the point of trying to prove to another ace I am the same as them.
I also dont see anything inherently wrong with us being different, if that is the case.
I am at peace with either scneario.
Asians tend to be shorter. Should they go around showing White folks and misguided Asian folks ...seee !!!! *points at example of tall Asian person*, I am no differnet... I AM JUST LIKE YOU.
If Black hair grows slower and it does so naturally I dont have a problem with that. It is what it is.
Just because a majority of people think it means something doesnt mean it does. Sometimes a majority just means all the fools are on the same side.
@Bravenewgirl87 you bring up a good point about products. That is something I have never thought about. When I went natural I did stop shopping for hair products in the ethnic hair section and my hair thrived. People still dont believe I use suave conditioner.
I think that if it is true that our hair grows as the same rate as other races, it could very well be a matter of product, and lack of education on how to care for the hair well. Also it makes it hard to compare when a majority of Black women mishandle their hair on a consistent basis. Sure we all have our examples of the Black girl who grew 3 feet of hair over the summer, or the White girl who grew 5 feet of hair a week after she shaved her head. But comparing Apples to Apples is very hard in this case. Also comparing relaxed Black hair to natural white hair may pose a problem too.
Serenity_Peace said:Congratulations on all of your hair growth success, by the way!![]()
bravenewgirl87 said:
Whats even funnier about it is that my hair was worse before i joined LHCF. All that hair would just be a monster to control, so i keep it at a presentable and workable length. My main goal is transitioning.