Black Love at it's finest y'all- Senior Black Couple Sets Record with 84 yr marriage

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Senior Black Couple Sets Record with 84-year Marriage



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Liz Bowles/Sun Journal
Zelmyra and Herbert Fisher have set a world record as the oldest living couple married the longest.
September 13, 2008 - 10:48PM
Francine Sawyer
Sun Journal Staff
A Craven County couple are in the Guinness World Records book.
The two did nothing outlandish such as sky-diving upside down, dancing for days, taking the longest lawn mower ride or having the most tattoos.
No, Herbert and Zelmyra Fisher of the Brownsville community have been married for more than 84 years. That is a feat in itself.
They have the world record of the longest marriage for a living couple.
They can thank their granddaughter Iris Godette for getting the recognition. She submitted the information to the Guinness Book of Records..
The information was apparently checked by Guinness and a certificate was given to the couple.
However, when you ask Herbert about the Guinness recognition, he just says, “Oh, Yeah?” The recognition has not changed their life.
He still looks at her with love and concern, as she looks toward him as if he will give her strength and guidance.
They have lived for more than 50 years in a house near the Coastal Carolina Regional Airport . They lived in James City before that but the land was purchased for apartments and the two moved.
Herbert was born June 10, 1905. His hearing is going but his mind is sharp. Zelmyra was born Dec. 10, 1907. She uses a walker to get around the house and yard. The two of them can still give their reasons for marrying on May 13, 1924.
“He was not mean; he was not a fighter,” Zelmrya said. “He was quiet and kind. He was not much to look at but he was sweet.”
Herbert said Zelmyra never gave him any trouble. “No, no trouble at all. We never argued, but we might have disagreed,” he said.
Norma Godette, one of the couple’s five children. said her parents have gotten along well through the years.
“One time, mama wanted to work. Daddy told her she could not work, that he could take care of the family. She slipped down to Cherry Point and got a job as a caretaker there,” Godette said.
“Well, it was done; she got the job. I had to let it be,” Herbert said.
Different religions did not tear the two apart. He is a member of Pilgrim Chapel Missionary Baptist Church . She is a member of Jones Chapel African Methodist Episcopal Zion Church . The churches are in James City , where they both grew up. For all of their married life they have attended their own churches. They go their own ways on Sunday morning.She reads the Bible daily.
The two watch television together. “We separate when the baseball comes on,” Zelmyra said.
Herbert loves baseball, especially the Atlanta Braves. He also enjoys golf, because one of his son-in-laws plays the game.
They have no secret or sage advice as to why their marriage has lasted so long.
“I didn’t know I would be married this long,” Herbert said. “But I lived a nice holy life and go to church every Sunday.
“Yes sir, anything for her.”
Zelmyra said Herbert was the only boyfriend she ever had. “We got along good,” she said. “There was no trouble.”
She said she is not tired of seeing him. “I didn’t think I’d be married this long. He is quiet,” she said.
Zelmyra said her husband had no annoying habits. They both said they shared the title of “boss.”
The two sit on the porch and as a train goes by they count the cars. They also watch the neighbors who walk by.
“They were excellent parents,” said Norma Godette. “We were poor, but we didn’t do without a thing. If he had two cents he saved one cent.”Herbert worked as a mechanic at the Coca-Cola Bottling Company in New Bern for 35 years.
He took a bicycle, caught a cab or had a neighbor drive him to work.
That hard work and savings put all five of the children through college.
Inside the house are plaques, letters of recognition, and awards that both the Fishers and their children received for accomplishments in civic duties and church.
The house where they raised their children has two sitting rooms and three bedrooms. Now that the children are grown, the Fishers enjoy having a bedroom for each. Herbert Fisher can stay up until the last ball is thrown in the ballgame he is watching. And he does.
Herbert makes his bed each day and sweeps his floor.
He also checks on his wife as she rests.
Between the rests, they enjoy their children, ten grandchildren, nine great-grandchildren and nieces and nephews.
Both say that if they had it to do over, they would not change their life.
 
Re: Black Love at it's finest y'all- Senior Black Couple Sets Record with 84 yr marri

Wow! 84 years.
 
Re: Black Love at it's finest y'all- Senior Black Couple Sets Record with 84 yr marri

:yay: :woot: Congrats to them :yahoo:
 
Re: Black Love at it's finest y'all- Senior Black Couple Sets Record with 84 yr marri

Beautiful article.
 
Re: Black Love at it's finest y'all- Senior Black Couple Sets Record with 84 yr marri

“He was not mean; he was not a fighter,” Zelmrya said. “He was quiet and kind. He was not much to look at but he was sweet.”

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See I keep telling yall.
 
Re: Black Love at it's finest y'all- Senior Black Couple Sets Record with 84 yr marri

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See I keep telling yall.

Some people just won't accept that looks aren't everything, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Lemme shut though...:look:
 
Re: Black Love at it's finest y'all- Senior Black Couple Sets Record with 84 yr marri

thanks for the article!

I'm laughing at granny talkin' about "He wasn't much to look at, but he was sweet."
 
Re: Black Love at it's finest y'all- Senior Black Couple Sets Record with 84 yr marri

Some people just won't accept that looks aren't everything, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Lemme shut though...:look:

I know alot of women that turn a man away because he's not as beautiful:look: as men they have dated in the past. Some of these men would make great husbands and fathers but a woman would rather have a beautiful man that beats her and cheats on her rather than have a unattractive man.
 
Re: Black Love at it's finest y'all- Senior Black Couple Sets Record with 84 yr marri

I know alot of women that turn a man away because he's not as beautiful:look: as men they have dated in the past. Some of these men would make great husbands and fathers but a woman would rather have a beautiful man that beats her and cheats on her rather than have a unattractive man.

I've noticed the same:(.
 
Re: Black Love at it's finest y'all- Senior Black Couple Sets Record with 84 yr marri

That is a really cute and inspirational!
 
Re: Black Love at it's finest y'all- Senior Black Couple Sets Record with 84 yr marri

thanks for the article!

I'm laughing at granny talkin' about "He wasn't much to look at, but he was sweet."

That's why I love old folks. They can say anything without all the side stepping and bs.

"No trouble", that's what I want. All that drama mess can be saved for the movies. It was a lovely story. The writing was elementary school level, though. :)
 
Re: Black Love at it's finest y'all- Senior Black Couple Sets Record with 84 yr marri

The was the sweetest story, the last sentence really touched me.

What's funny too is that she's not that much to look at either :lol:.

:lachen::lachen::lachen::lachen::lachen::lachen::lachen::lachen::lachen::lachen::lachen::lachen:

See I keep telling yall.

I see what you're saying about looks not being that important, but still :spank:.
 
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Re: Black Love at it's finest y'all- Senior Black Couple Sets Record with 84 yr marri

they said alot indirectly

they let and allow each other be who they are
they don't let others dictate who they are gonna be or what they are gonna do not even the church
they dont have to agree on everything and understand that
their love was worth more than the alot of superficialities that people place more importance on in life

i never get tired of looking at him even while not being a looker says alot, her working to help out and support even when he wanted to do it all and she knew the help was needed says alot....

I dig that story...:)
 
Re: Black Love at it's finest y'all- Senior Black Couple Sets Record with 84 yr marri

I love this story! Beautiful.
 
Re: Black Love at it's finest y'all- Senior Black Couple Sets Record with 84 yr marri

such a beautiful story. it was well worth the read
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Re: Black Love at it's finest y'all- Senior Black Couple Sets Record with 84 yr marri

Beautiful story, thanks for posting!
 
Re: Black Love at it's finest y'all- Senior Black Couple Sets Record with 84 yr marri

*looks at my husband* Oh heckie naw!

84 years! Bless their hearts.
 
Re: Black Love at it's finest y'all- Senior Black Couple Sets Record with 84 yr marri

Bless 'em because that is something to behold right there.:yep:
 
Re: Black Love at it's finest y'all- Senior Black Couple Sets Record with 84 yr marri

That's amazing! Thank you for this post... :)
 
Re: Black Love at it's finest y'all- Senior Black Couple Sets Record with 84 yr marri

"Yes sir, anything for her"

Love it, love it, love it!!!!!!!!!!!
 
Re: Black Love at it's finest y'all- Senior Black Couple Sets Record with 84 yr marri

great story :yep: soooo cute !
 
Re: Black Love at it's finest y'all- Senior Black Couple Sets Record with 84 yr marri

Sweet story :)
 
Re: Black Love at it's finest y'all- Senior Black Couple Sets Record with 84 yr marri

Very nice article thank you for sharing again.
 
Re: Black Love at it's finest y'all- Senior Black Couple Sets Record with 84 yr marri

I love it :yep:
And they both said, "I didn't know I wanted to be married this long" I guess they just kept going.

The separate churches is too cute and says alot.
 
Re: Black Love at it's finest y'all- Senior Black Couple Sets Record with 84 yr marri

They agreed to disagreements. Cool story.
 
Re: Black Love at it's finest y'all- Senior Black Couple Sets Record with 84 yr marri

Thanks for posting this story. It warmed my heart.
 
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