thaidreams
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I can honestly say that I get the same amount of attention from black men when my hair is both pressed and curly. My husband is the only black man I know that actually prefers my hair straight.
I get more attention with my hair big and curly--from most races. The word "exotic" gets thrown at me a lot. lol I do think the majority of men prefer straight hair--but like someone else mentioned, I think length (that shows, meaning stretched natural hair) can trump straight.
I get more attention with my hair big and curly--from most races. The word "exotic" gets thrown at me a lot. lol I do think the majority of men prefer straight hair--but like someone else mentioned, I think length (that shows, meaning stretched natural hair) can trump straight.
For me, I've noticed a different BREED of black men who approach me since being natural. I'm no longer approached by the thugs/wankstas. I'm approached by black men on the professional level.
White men, LOVE me! Point blank...lol they let it be known too that they are interested.
I've never really gave a damn if a man liked/disliked me if I was natural. If I'm not his type, I'm just not his type. I know alot of women have that fear when they consider transistioning back to their natural hair. But, Ain't no way in hell I'm going to straighten my hair just because I'm afraid of getting/keeping a man.
It is funny the white men I meet absolutley love my twa. A couple of black men say why did u do that. My dh says he hates my natural hair but funny he can not keep his hand sout of my head.
He says he loves to feel the curls but still hates natural hair.
Off topic: I am 5'9 and I meet so many hispanic men that are half my height that come up and want to take me out!!!!! Go figure.
The good news is that men fall in love with us for a combination of reasons: our faces, personalities, figures, ambitions, dreams, our smiles, and more. Our hair is only an aspect of who we are. If you have a lot going for you, natural hair, kinky or not, will not keep men of any race from wanting you.