glamazon386
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JazzyDez said:But I must admit that I dont know if I would be willing to admit that I wear a weave to one of my mostly white co-workers. And for the same reason bmore mentioned in her in her thread about someone sharing her fotki link (sorry about that bmore). I too don't feel like explaining "black hair" or even "my hair" or the "how to's." Most sisters have been there and done that or already know about it. They usually just want to know if it is your real hair, and possibly who did it or where you got it from. From my experience with people from other races I get 99 questions if I tell them its not all my hair. erplexed Like, "Wow thats not your hair? "How do you do that?" "Where does your hair end and the fake hair start?" "How long did it take?" "How long is your real hair?" etc etc etc.... And I know the questions would likely be drawn from pure curosity and ignorance to black hair and weaves but I'm usually not in the mood to be anyones teacher .
But if someone black were to ask me.....whether I knew them personally or it was off of the street....I would be quick to tell them it was a weave. Just because I dont have to explain the why's and the how to's. Also I feel like they can relate to me more when I tell them it is a weave.....and they would be less likely to judge me (in most cases). So thats my 2cents.....just being honest.
Right. If it's a black person that's one thing but a white (or anything else but black)person? Nah I'm just gonna go with the smile and nod. Because it won't end with just that one question. Why even go through all that? The black people already knew it was weave. They just wanted to find out more about it. That I'm cool with. I've even referred people to my weaveologist after they asked.