hair4romheaven
Well-Known Member
I'm sorry this happened to you.
You are so right! I should have walked out but no I wanted to try the BKT , I wanted my hair straight while transitioning I thought this was going to be the best thing since slice bread. Another thing is Im not that bold to just walk out while I already made an appt. drove 40 minutes and had a Christmas party that same night. I just sat there and now my hair is paying the cost. I really feel like pulling a Britney, but I know i might cry when my eyes glaze back over.
How should I prepare it, im still fairly new to henna. Right now i mixed 3/4 cup henna , tablespoon of water, some oil(africa's best), castor oil and mixed. <~~These are guestimations. After applying to my strands I put aussie moist(3 min. miracle) over the henna. I dont know, we'll see how it turns out.
He used Global. I feel my hair is weak and damged so I thought Henna would help, I didnt use alot, I put lots of oil in it and im dcing for at least an hour with a super moisturizing dc. If it causes more damage Im cutting my hair off ..I really dont care anymore.If you aren't familiar with henna just yet, why put your hair through it and risk more damage? You have me scared for your hair! Hoping for the best, but ultimately, you should just let your hair rest. Henna is a protein and that with BKT may cause protein overload. If its just thickness that's a problem, maybe you just aren't comfortable with the effects of the BKT or wasn't expecting the outcome. Some, like Global, give relaxer straight results. If your hair isn't breaking or shedding a lot, I'd leave it alone and just stick to your regular regimen and DCing. Did you ever say which BKT he used? Also, other than the lack of thickness, what else can you tell us about your BKT'd hair? How else does it feel? Would you consider doing it again but with a different stylist or even on your own?
He used Global.
For texlaxed hair, the entire truth would be that results vary. Some have experienced sucessful reversion and others haven't and won't.
My pre-BKT texlaxed hair is still bone straight after 8 months, I would say that's permanent.
Sorry that your experience went bad. However I must say this, You allowed him to tear and rip through your hair.
You were supposed to get up the first time he snatched through your precious locks. And thank him for his time and leave.
I cant feel that bad bc we as women do not have to beg anyone to take our money and mess up our hair.
semi i had an experience when the stylist's assistant was basing my scalp and went ripping through my hair, and i turned completely around (said nothing) and looked her straight in her eyes like, "what is wrong with you?"
i offered her my wide tooth comb, and she showed me she had one and that my hair was tangled (it was, obviously since i needed the perm). nevertheless, due to lhcf, i know how to detangle my hair without ripping (didn't bother to discuss further, i let the look say it all). she was definitely on the defensive after that to know that i was watching her.
also, the lead stylist is naturally very bossy, but i interrogated her with a few key questions so that she would know that i was watching her too and had certain concerns of how I want my hair to look, in spite of her "expertise". you really have to establish an "understanding" with stylists in advance...
i totaly agree. i protect my hair like i would my child. and i dont understand those women that let stylist cut their hair and then complain about it later. you have all the power not the stylist. i think some women go to the salon with a blindfold on or somthing. i dont get it. im sorry this happend to you but smhhh, c'mon
i totaly agree. i protect my hair like i would my child. and i dont understand those women that let stylist cut their hair and then complain about it later. you have all the power not the stylist. i think some women go to the salon with a blindfold on or somthing. i dont get it. im sorry this happend to you but smhhh, c'mon
i thought that i was the only one who had bad things to say about BKT. I used it and my hair was so wonderful for about 3 weeks. then all hell broke out. My hair became so thin and the breakage was ridiculous. and the final result, a huge bald spot in the front of my head, one side of my hair line started about 2 inches further back then the other side. and the damage was almost unbelieveable.
^^^ what she said...big ehugs to youIm so sorry to hear this...
It could have been the stylist the BKT or both. Baby that hair in everyway possible.
The thing with bkt is that you have to be sure your stylist is able. There are many do it yourselfers here that are able and have successful results. Then there are some stylists that are clearly lacking in their ability to apply this treatment. Just like relaxers, when in the wrong hands they will jack your hair up! And even when you think they're able look what happens! It sucks but your hair will revive.
I was interested in this for a second myself but decided it wasn't worth it. In time your hair will recover and gain it's thickness back. I say hide it for a while.
I wish I had pictures to show you how thin and lifeless my hair is. Im a 4a/4b transitioner who went into the salon last friday to get my bkt done after reading so many positive reviews.
First off the guy did not know how to deal with AA hair as well as he said he could. He ripped through my kinks and i felt my hair dying with each flat iron. I was cringing the whole time, there was a point where I took out my big comb that i brought with me and started detangling my own damn hair! The whole problem was he told me to wash my hair before I came with shampoo and use no conditioner that does not work for 4a/4b hair so my hair was not in its softest state.
I am soo mad its been a week and if today wasnt christmas I WOULD CALL TO ASK HOW TO GET RID OF THIS CRAP. I MISS MY THICKNESS , I LOST OVER HALF MY THICKNESS MY PONYTAILS LOOK PITIFUL!! PLEASE HELP ME..WHAT PRODUCTS SHOULD I USE TO MAKE MY HAIR THICKEN UP QUICK.
^Most recent pic of my hair rollerset on close to 20 wk post hair Thanksgiving 09
Now my post(not so groomed) BKT hair
I washed hair with a neutralizing shampoo ,henna'd(pic below), followed by a DC (4 HRS)
Freshly rinsed hair
^IS THAT ALOT, THERE WAS MORE HAIR IN MY SHOWER
SEE THROUGH HAIR