Bellamystic
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I told my BF that I was going natural and will be cutting my hair in 1 year to be a full natural. He asks me why do I want to cut it when my hair is already long. I tell him because I want my hair to be natural and I don't want my hair to be fragile. He thinks my hair is long, but I don't consider it long because I am a witness of how long BW hair can get by just being here on LHCF. He isn't too happy, though. I asked him does he think relaxers are the best option to go then and he says no. So, I say, well idiot that's why I'm chopping my hair off.
Then, I go on to explain to him that I'm not chopping it off all at once. I told him my hair will be the same length it is now when I cut it off, it just will look curly. He still doesn't understand. So, I'm like F it in my head. I'm still doing it and whatever he says is not going to stop me.
He doesn't prefer me wearing weave, so I'm sure he'll be pleased with the end results anyways. He loves black women with long hair, so I know he'll be happy, he just doesn't understand the process.
Then, I go on to explain to him that I'm not chopping it off all at once. I told him my hair will be the same length it is now when I cut it off, it just will look curly. He still doesn't understand. So, I'm like F it in my head. I'm still doing it and whatever he says is not going to stop me.
He doesn't prefer me wearing weave, so I'm sure he'll be pleased with the end results anyways. He loves black women with long hair, so I know he'll be happy, he just doesn't understand the process.
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