there will always be a person who loves the other more. What makes these relationships work is the other person must be appreciative and not take advantage of that love.
At church I heard:
Thou shall take no other Gods before me also refers to people idolizing their mates. Remember to keep God first and remember that we are all human, capable of faults and errors. Dont worship your mate no matter how good they are.
Big Boom on Steve harvey:
If you want closure in your relationships, start with your legs.