klassykutie
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...and everyone is hating on her so bad. I have known her for some months now, and this girl is such a wonderful person. She gives sooooo much of herself to the people in her life, and they just walk all over her.
But anyway, when I first met her, she had shoulder length hair. She has been cutting it shorter and shorter over the past few months. She recently went to the doctor and he told her she has severe eczeme(sp?). when I met her, I was natural, and she admired my hair. Now that she has this skin condition, she said she doesn't want to relax her hair anymore cause it irritates her scalp. So she went against her family and fiance' and big chopped.
This girl has gorgeous curly hair. And I admire her so much cause even I wasn't brave enough to big chop. She came to me when she cut her hair and I loved it on her. She said her SO made her cry with what he said and how he looked at her. He asked her if she did it cause I had a natural. I wanted to tell him where he could go, but I didn't cause I don't want to start any drama.
One of her SO's ex "friend with benefits" told her she was going to have to get her a wig for her wedding
!!! I am so like, the nerve of these jealous people.
I told my friend that when her hair grows out into those long gorgeous curls, everyone will be hating for real, and her man will love it better than the relaxed hair that he so wanted her to keep.
Has anyone ever dealt with this? How did you support your friend, family, or whatever the case may be?
I transitioned with my SO and he was into the long relaxed hair, but I had his support totally and he loves my curls. I don't want to say or do anything to make my friend feel worse, cause I have been hated on, too, but I tell people where to go before I let them hurt me. She isn't that strong.
But anyway, when I first met her, she had shoulder length hair. She has been cutting it shorter and shorter over the past few months. She recently went to the doctor and he told her she has severe eczeme(sp?). when I met her, I was natural, and she admired my hair. Now that she has this skin condition, she said she doesn't want to relax her hair anymore cause it irritates her scalp. So she went against her family and fiance' and big chopped.
This girl has gorgeous curly hair. And I admire her so much cause even I wasn't brave enough to big chop. She came to me when she cut her hair and I loved it on her. She said her SO made her cry with what he said and how he looked at her. He asked her if she did it cause I had a natural. I wanted to tell him where he could go, but I didn't cause I don't want to start any drama.
One of her SO's ex "friend with benefits" told her she was going to have to get her a wig for her wedding
!!! I am so like, the nerve of these jealous people. I told my friend that when her hair grows out into those long gorgeous curls, everyone will be hating for real, and her man will love it better than the relaxed hair that he so wanted her to keep.
Has anyone ever dealt with this? How did you support your friend, family, or whatever the case may be?
I transitioned with my SO and he was into the long relaxed hair, but I had his support totally and he loves my curls. I don't want to say or do anything to make my friend feel worse, cause I have been hated on, too, but I tell people where to go before I let them hurt me. She isn't that strong.
but I will share!!! I think it will really help her alot.
I also received negative comments about how short my hair was and I didn't even bc. Now all the people who had something negative to say are asking me for hair tips
