Hi Ladies,
Something is bothering me so much, and it's actually stressing me out too much. My best friend, or should I say the person closest to me who knows about all the troubles i'm going through, and who knows absolutely everything about me is acting all strange (cold) towards me. I know I must have done something wrong for her to act this way. It's her behavior that's changed dramatically. I know something is up. I don't know what. I asked her maybe 20 times, but the way she's responding just confirms it even further for me that there IS something i've done. We know each other too well too not notice, and I'm certain there is something but she won't tell me. She'll just laugh it off and say 'I'm fine' 'I'm fine'. If that was me and she genuinely had not done something to me I would ask her why she thinks that? But all she's saying to me is 'I promise you there's nothing' and 'I'm okay'. I just know I've done something but it looks like she's gonna persist in not telling me as I've been bothering her about it all morning now.
And to top it off, despite financial issues i traveled from far to visit her for a week, and even though I am leaving today, she didn't even say bye this morning, and just left me, alone, in her house without saying bye. Tell me that's not strange? And we were sleeping in the same room, but as she got up to get out for uni she was intentionally banging and making lots of noise which she doesn't normally do? And her tone was angry/moody when I would ask her something, and she would respond with yes/no closed answers. In the end i told her it was nearly time for me to leave and that I made sure her door/windows are shut. And she replied with 'okay bye'.
I know her too well to be 'misunderstanding' or to be mistaken in this. I know something is up, and it's frustrating that she's persisting in not telling me. She was fine last night, it's this morning she's acting strange. And she's normally such a kind and considerate person, that her change in behavior was just impossible not to notice.
I've been bugging her all morning to tell me, but all she's telling me is 'i'm fine' etc. Very closed unlike-her type responses.
I don't know what to do? It's stressed me out so much I actually cried, i know childish. But it really upset me, how she was acting all cold, when I'm in her place and come to her from far and she's just gone and left without saying nothing?
should I give her time? What if she persists on pretending there's nothing? I find it extremely difficult to be just act like nothings wrong.
sigh..
Something is bothering me so much, and it's actually stressing me out too much. My best friend, or should I say the person closest to me who knows about all the troubles i'm going through, and who knows absolutely everything about me is acting all strange (cold) towards me. I know I must have done something wrong for her to act this way. It's her behavior that's changed dramatically. I know something is up. I don't know what. I asked her maybe 20 times, but the way she's responding just confirms it even further for me that there IS something i've done. We know each other too well too not notice, and I'm certain there is something but she won't tell me. She'll just laugh it off and say 'I'm fine' 'I'm fine'. If that was me and she genuinely had not done something to me I would ask her why she thinks that? But all she's saying to me is 'I promise you there's nothing' and 'I'm okay'. I just know I've done something but it looks like she's gonna persist in not telling me as I've been bothering her about it all morning now.
And to top it off, despite financial issues i traveled from far to visit her for a week, and even though I am leaving today, she didn't even say bye this morning, and just left me, alone, in her house without saying bye. Tell me that's not strange? And we were sleeping in the same room, but as she got up to get out for uni she was intentionally banging and making lots of noise which she doesn't normally do? And her tone was angry/moody when I would ask her something, and she would respond with yes/no closed answers. In the end i told her it was nearly time for me to leave and that I made sure her door/windows are shut. And she replied with 'okay bye'.
I know her too well to be 'misunderstanding' or to be mistaken in this. I know something is up, and it's frustrating that she's persisting in not telling me. She was fine last night, it's this morning she's acting strange. And she's normally such a kind and considerate person, that her change in behavior was just impossible not to notice.
I've been bugging her all morning to tell me, but all she's telling me is 'i'm fine' etc. Very closed unlike-her type responses.
I don't know what to do? It's stressed me out so much I actually cried, i know childish. But it really upset me, how she was acting all cold, when I'm in her place and come to her from far and she's just gone and left without saying nothing?
should I give her time? What if she persists on pretending there's nothing? I find it extremely difficult to be just act like nothings wrong.
sigh..
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