Before you settle down....

[MissScarlett]

live alone for two years.check
finish college.check
travel with friends.check
be financially stable.check
learn how to cook. I'm working on that

AT least you're trying...

 

[shelly25]

Q: If you found the love of your life and you both wanted to settle down and take your relationship to the next level (marriage) would you 'postpone' the thought to accomplish your goals first?

This is the situation I am in presently, at 21 I am NOOOOOO where near to accomplishing the goals that I want to achieve and at 22 nor is FH; but we are soooo ready to be married. He is thinking March of next year but realistically by the end of 2009

Yes. I'm also 21 but if he asked me to marry him today, I'd say yes lol
But I don't really have a list of things I just have to do before I get married. The only thing I'd like to do is live by myself. Haven't done that yet. Also, to have enough money in the bank. I just finished college and looking for a job, so I'm broke :-( And I agree with the person who said that they could just travel with their guy. So, traveling by myself isn't a huge thing, I'd rather do it with him.