Re: Asha\'s First Flat Twist Attempt 2/19/2003
Asha,
Your hair is so pretty...straight or natural.
Like you, I used to be a member of one of those "napptural/nappy" boards when I cut all of the perm from my hair. I used to wear my hair straight 70% of the time and when I didn't straighten, I wore it in a natural ponytail, well really a pom-pom because it surely didn't look like a pony's tail /images/graemlins/grin.gif.
Anyway, the bad attitudes drove me away. When I mentioned that I airdried and pressed my hair most of the time, those women went off. You would have thought I told them I kill people for a living /images/graemlins/crazy.gif. Just like you said, you can't please everyone.
Another thing, why would a woman care what another woman does to her hair? Not trying to be homophobic or anything, but complaining about another woman's hair not being natural enough sounds really, really, gay to me.