gone_fishing
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Whether you are in a relationship or not I'm interested to know about this thing called a platonic relationship.
I was challenged to evaluate my opposite gender relationships and asked the following - Of the men that I consider to be JUST my friend:
Have they ever tried to be with me on a romantic level or expressed an interest in doing so?
Have I ever tried to be with them on a romantic level or expressed an interest in doing so?
Are any of my guy friends love interests who lost interest (either me or them) and we became friend by default?
Are any of my guy friends people who state or imply that they would be open to pursuing a relationship with me if MY relationship failed?
Are there any male friends who do not fit into one of the categories above?
(This does not include any male friend that I know exclusively from the internet and have no contact with in real life - just for the sake of argument).
I'm talking only about real life guys who you see and have a relationship with.
Wow, after thinking about that I realized that very very few of my guy friends fall OUTSIDE of the categories above saving some childhood friends.
Is it healthy to keep these types of friend around if you are in a relationship and ummmm...what do you think of your SO keeping these types of friends around?
http://www.longhaircareforum.com/showpost.php?p=2612919&postcount=12
This is what inspired this thread.
I was challenged to evaluate my opposite gender relationships and asked the following - Of the men that I consider to be JUST my friend:
Have they ever tried to be with me on a romantic level or expressed an interest in doing so?
Have I ever tried to be with them on a romantic level or expressed an interest in doing so?
Are any of my guy friends love interests who lost interest (either me or them) and we became friend by default?
Are any of my guy friends people who state or imply that they would be open to pursuing a relationship with me if MY relationship failed?
Are there any male friends who do not fit into one of the categories above?
(This does not include any male friend that I know exclusively from the internet and have no contact with in real life - just for the sake of argument).
I'm talking only about real life guys who you see and have a relationship with.
Wow, after thinking about that I realized that very very few of my guy friends fall OUTSIDE of the categories above saving some childhood friends.
Is it healthy to keep these types of friend around if you are in a relationship and ummmm...what do you think of your SO keeping these types of friends around?
http://www.longhaircareforum.com/showpost.php?p=2612919&postcount=12
This is what inspired this thread.
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