weaveologist
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Is your man a crier? Are you turned off by your man's tears?
This was a topic on the radio this morning and the answers were so funny. I did a thread search and didn't find anything so thought it was safe...
The actual question was how many times a year do you give your man to cry and what are the occasions? Then it just boiled down to women who are turned on/off my men who cry.
My junior and senior year of high school I didn't criers. They were true wimps! Junior year when I broke up with that boyfriend, him and I were walking to pick up my son from day care. I had him wait outside while I went into the building. When me and my son came outside this fools face was full of tears
. He was just standing in front of the building balling as other parents came in and out. Then my son, who was two at the time, looked at him and asked me "What's wrong with him?" in the cutest baby voice.....Never got back with him.
Then senior year I was dating an emotional roller coaster. Whooooo he was a crier. Cried on my voicemail when we got in arguments. Just cry, cry, cry. And this fool was from the west side! One day we got into an argument as I walked him to the bus stop (he was leaving my house) and this fool starts crying and kicking bottles up the street. He was attracting attention from the gang bangers! I told him in my mama voice (you know the one when your mother grits her teeth), "You better wipe yo' face right now before we get shot!".....LMAO!
Ever since then I am sooooo unattracted to men who even APPEAR to be soft. I like men to be emotional but not TOO emotional. I need some aggression. Crying at funerals? Okay. Crying when we get married? Cool. Crying when Obama won? Understood... But that's it!
This was a topic on the radio this morning and the answers were so funny. I did a thread search and didn't find anything so thought it was safe...
The actual question was how many times a year do you give your man to cry and what are the occasions? Then it just boiled down to women who are turned on/off my men who cry.
My junior and senior year of high school I didn't criers. They were true wimps! Junior year when I broke up with that boyfriend, him and I were walking to pick up my son from day care. I had him wait outside while I went into the building. When me and my son came outside this fools face was full of tears
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Then senior year I was dating an emotional roller coaster. Whooooo he was a crier. Cried on my voicemail when we got in arguments. Just cry, cry, cry. And this fool was from the west side! One day we got into an argument as I walked him to the bus stop (he was leaving my house) and this fool starts crying and kicking bottles up the street. He was attracting attention from the gang bangers! I told him in my mama voice (you know the one when your mother grits her teeth), "You better wipe yo' face right now before we get shot!".....LMAO!
Ever since then I am sooooo unattracted to men who even APPEAR to be soft. I like men to be emotional but not TOO emotional. I need some aggression. Crying at funerals? Okay. Crying when we get married? Cool. Crying when Obama won? Understood... But that's it!
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