Are you married to or dating a much younger man?
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january noir
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I'm 7 years older than my SO.
ElizaBlue
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How did you meet? Online
Did he know your age right away or did you tell him much later? Right away
Do you look your age or much younger? If what folks say is true I look younger than my age and much younger than him.
Any age gap issues you're dealing with? Nope. Stamina matched. Very important.
He's 7 years younger and thank you Jesus!!!
Did he know your age right away or did you tell him much later? Right away
Do you look your age or much younger? If what folks say is true I look younger than my age and much younger than him.
Any age gap issues you're dealing with? Nope. Stamina matched. Very important.
He's 7 years younger and thank you Jesus!!!
freckledface
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I turn 26 next month and he's 22
We met in the club.... Hey who would've thought lol
He knew my age right away and after a few convos told me his... I was turned off.
I look my ago or maybe a little younger.
No problems. Were both young but he's really young. I pick on him that he's still growing lol. But he's very mature and we complete each other. I teach him things and he teaches me things also.
My only advice is don't end up his mama. Since we've been around a little longer and may have seen a little more the bossy I'm right cause I'm older may come out. A guy friend gave me that advice and it really has come in handy lol (I can be bossy at times) he's a young gun but he's still my man not my child so I have to respect it regardless of his age.
We met in the club.... Hey who would've thought lol
He knew my age right away and after a few convos told me his... I was turned off.
I look my ago or maybe a little younger.
No problems. Were both young but he's really young. I pick on him that he's still growing lol. But he's very mature and we complete each other. I teach him things and he teaches me things also.
My only advice is don't end up his mama. Since we've been around a little longer and may have seen a little more the bossy I'm right cause I'm older may come out. A guy friend gave me that advice and it really has come in handy lol (I can be bossy at times) he's a young gun but he's still my man not my child so I have to respect it regardless of his age.
AyannaDivine
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^^^ I made the 'mama' mistake with my ex. I was very bossy and treated him like he was my son. I was also too nurturing, almost to the point if treating him like a baby.
We met when I was 24 and he was 20...imagine dating someone who can't even buy you a drink lol...the sex shole' was good though! That's why I like those young tenderonies, they have stamina!!!
We met when I was 24 and he was 20...imagine dating someone who can't even buy you a drink lol...the sex shole' was good though! That's why I like those young tenderonies, they have stamina!!!
freckledface
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Hahaha!! Yes lawd!!!
BGT
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My ex was 19 when we started dating and I was 22. We broke up a few weeks ago. I will be 24 next month and he will be 21. It was difficult because I was finishing college and working full time, starting my career. And he just started part time at a CC this January and is still working retail. I felt like he wasn't on my level, and I didn't care to wait 4 or 5 years until he got his life together.
You'd think I had learned from the past? Now I'm talking to a 19 year old.
I don't want a relationship with this kid, he can't even buy me a drink, but we can play around more. He was pretty advanced. 
You'd think I had learned from the past? Now I'm talking to a 19 year old.
I don't want a relationship with this kid, he can't even buy me a drink, but we can play around more. He was pretty advanced. 
sky_blu
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He's younger but not that much younger...just 11 months and 4 days..yes I counted down to the day LOL. The guy I was seeing before him was 4 years younger and that crash/burned almost immediately...AyannaDivine I can agree with you though LOL. I said I would never go younger after him and then I met my SO, who thankfully isn't that much younger and so much on-the-go as my younger guy.
pink gator
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I'm 14 years older. 
A college classmate introduced us. He started crushing on me when he first saw me and begged my classmate (they're best friends) to set us up.
I look/act much younger than my chronological age. I decided that I will probably stop telling people my age because no one believes me. I've always attracted younger men. Men my age really don't give me the time of day.
He knew I was a couple years older than his BFF and I thought he was the same age. When he told me his age, I hesitated. He told me that it is one of his biggest pet peeves when people make light of his age and, if I had a problem with it, I should let him know and he'd keep it moving.
I told him that I was fine with it as long as he was with mine. He was. 
He has his moments (like a lot of men, regardless of age), but I've found him to be very generous, affectionate, attentive, and hard-working. He is also the very first man who doesn't take my s**t and calls me out. I'm used to having men who let me do whatever I please and act trife.
Believe it or not, his ex-wife is 16 years older than he. They were actually married for several years.
A college classmate introduced us. He started crushing on me when he first saw me and begged my classmate (they're best friends) to set us up.
I look/act much younger than my chronological age. I decided that I will probably stop telling people my age because no one believes me. I've always attracted younger men. Men my age really don't give me the time of day.
He knew I was a couple years older than his BFF and I thought he was the same age. When he told me his age, I hesitated. He told me that it is one of his biggest pet peeves when people make light of his age and, if I had a problem with it, I should let him know and he'd keep it moving.
I told him that I was fine with it as long as he was with mine. He was. He has his moments (like a lot of men, regardless of age), but I've found him to be very generous, affectionate, attentive, and hard-working. He is also the very first man who doesn't take my s**t and calls me out. I'm used to having men who let me do whatever I please and act trife.
Believe it or not, his ex-wife is 16 years older than he. They were actually married for several years.
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Pompous Blue
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DH is 11 years younger than me. (He and my son are 8 years apart.)
He has 4 sisters; no brothers. Two of them and his mother/father were a little 'hostile' at first. We didn't care. They came around. We've been together 24 years.
Also, never had children.
Met at church.
He has 4 sisters; no brothers. Two of them and his mother/father were a little 'hostile' at first. We didn't care. They came around. We've been together 24 years.
Also, never had children.
Met at church.
BrownSkinQT
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I am 9 1/2 ( he's 24, im 33) years older than my current.
We met in a connections group on fb. When i learned his age, I hesitated. But he drew me in with his maturity and intelligence.
We surprisingly don't have any age gap issues.
I meet his family in A couple weeks (we're in a ldr).
Sexual chemistry is off the meat hook!!!!
We met in a connections group on fb. When i learned his age, I hesitated. But he drew me in with his maturity and intelligence.
We surprisingly don't have any age gap issues.
I meet his family in A couple weeks (we're in a ldr).
Sexual chemistry is off the meat hook!!!!
GeorginaSparks
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I cant do it. I love these stories tho.
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LilMissRed
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Im 6 yrs older than dh. We met online. We both forget the age difference. Everyone thinks we're the same age. We've been together 8 yrs; married 5 
We balance one another out. Lovemaking is FANTASTIC!
Oh! And we both knew one another's ages from day 1.
Ive always been attracted to younger guys/have always attracted them more so than the older guys. Its not for everyone.
Excuse my typos-Im more than likely on my phone
We balance one another out. Lovemaking is FANTASTIC! Oh! And we both knew one another's ages from day 1.
Ive always been attracted to younger guys/have always attracted them more so than the older guys. Its not for everyone.
Excuse my typos-Im more than likely on my phone
pre_medicalrulz
It Always Been About Hair!
Having a younger brother makes me err on the side of dating younger. Makes my flesh crawl. And for some reason lately, that's all I seem to attract. lol
aviddiva77
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I get the old enough to be my father/grandfather types. I guess when people tell me I have an old soul they weren't kidding.
*~*Afrolicious*~*
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Can I ask who made the first step? I'm in a weird place with my tenderoni and I need examples
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