isawstars
Well-Known Member
I definitely am... I am 24 and I want to "grow out of it." Is that even possible? I recently came to this conclusion after reevaluating my previous relationships and reading Why Men Love *****es. I miss so many red flags because I view the relationship as this wonderful, perfect, lovey dovey connection... when it really isn't.
In example, I reread some old text conversations my ex and I had... And now that we've been broken up for 2 months, I saw our conversations as what it really was! I was WAY more into him than he was into me... and I was going out of my way for him... There were many instances that rubbed me the wrong way or were just inconsiderate of him, but I never noticed it then!
I do this ALL THE TIME. I fall head over heels for a guy and think he is the one almost every single time. I'm tired of wearing rose colored glasses. Do you ladies have any tips or experiences you can share? Is this just my personality or is it something I can grow out of?
In example, I reread some old text conversations my ex and I had... And now that we've been broken up for 2 months, I saw our conversations as what it really was! I was WAY more into him than he was into me... and I was going out of my way for him... There were many instances that rubbed me the wrong way or were just inconsiderate of him, but I never noticed it then!
I do this ALL THE TIME. I fall head over heels for a guy and think he is the one almost every single time. I'm tired of wearing rose colored glasses. Do you ladies have any tips or experiences you can share? Is this just my personality or is it something I can grow out of?