Are you a Cuddler?

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Syrah

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Note: we're not talking about post-coital cuddling, but simple "lets watch a movie" or "lets go to sleep" cuddler.

Are you a cuddler?
Do you love to spoon and go to sleep in the "nook"?
And is your SO/DH a big cuddler?
 
Yessss... I am...
I love to snuggle up under my baby. I sleep on my stomach and he on his back or whatever, so I don't really fall asleep on him. Tho I can easily fall asleep with him spooning me. He loves it, he also insists that I rub him all the time...He's borderline obsessive with me rubbing him :drunk: :spinning:
 
OOh, I love cuddling! It gives me that little blood rush to the brain that makes me feel relaxed. Spooning is so soothing, too. Unfortunately SO can't keep his hands to himself and his crayon starts getting agitated... :look:
I miss my teddy (my SO's nickname) :sad:
 
Me? Not so much, but my ex and current DID (Dude I'm dating) are big cuddlers. Cuddle and watch tv. Cuddle and watch movies. Cuddle on the floor.

Sometimes I like it and sometimes I feel like I'm being suffocated LOL. I feel like dudes cuddle with me like I'm a hug-a-bunch teddy bear.
 
I love cuddling, when I had a SO we would just lay on the sofa and watch tv and I would snuggle up to him. I think he liked it more than me because anytime we were sleep if I moved out of the cuddling position he would wake me up and adjust me. I didn't like that too much. I don't like cuddling when I'm sleep I need space.
 
I love cuddling, but i have to be in the mood. BF only likes to cuddle when it's time to go to sleep. He wants to hold me, and i have to "slip away" a few times a night. Thank goodness we don't live together. I need my space when i'm trying to sleep.
 
I hate to cuddle! I get hot and uncomfortable. Hold me when i'm sleepy and I will get angry. :nono: I used to do it because the ex liked it. I could have lived happily without it :look:
 
Nope!! I like to sprawl out, and I tend to twist and turn alot, and when I'm cuddling, I feel like I'm making my cuddlee shift and adjust everytime I move.

I like to be about 6-10 inches away, and have a leg tossed over yours, or rub an arm or a back or something.

It's only been in the last year that I've been able to even consider falling asleep while tucked under DH.....
 
~~HoneyComb~~ said:
I'm not so much a cuddler, but DH and DD are, so I will do it for them.
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Same here.

I was just telling my newly married coworker how dh loves to spoon and how I elbowed him in the face the other night. Ya know sometimes you just don't want to be bothered with all that.
 
No. I am a screwer. :look: :lol:

Nah, I feel like I'm being smothered. I have tactile sensitivities and I can't tolerate being confined up under someone or have someone bear hugging me all night or having someone hovering over me...it makes me paranoid and angry.

I am also unromantic and unsentimental. My family didn't do all that hugging and kissing. It's unnerving to me now.

DH is a cuddler. He's come to accept I'm more of a screwer than a cuddler. I asked him which would you rather have. :lachen:
 
I love love love cuddling my SO. He is so cuddly and always smells so good. I cuddle him all the time. I like to have him wrap his big arms around me.
 
i'm definitely a cuddler. i like to be close and touchy feely with an SO. it feels good to cuddle. however, i don't like to cuddle when i'm trying to sleep. i gotta have my space and freedom to roll over and rotate my neck as i please.
 
Nah...my mom and friends tell me that I have a man's personality. LOL!

I don't like to cuddle, and be all kissy-kissy..and be held...oh yeah and I hate PDA.
 
I love to cuddle! I just can't do it and sleep well simultaneously. :ohwell:

Any other time and I'm in the nook! :cloud9:
 
While watching tv and while I am as I am falling asleep, yes.
After I get to sleep and I am trying to get some rest or if I am hoy, I need him to get away from me
 
dlewis said:
Same here.

I was just telling my newly married coworker how dh loves to spoon and how I elbowed him in the face the other night. Ya know sometimes you just don't want to be bothered with all that.
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Did you elbow him on purpose D, or was it an accident:lachen:?

You're right sometimes you just don't be in the mood and gotta have your space.
 
I like to cuddle while awake or tired and resting. Maybe sometimes when I'm going to sleep if I'm really sleepy and/or not in a rush to get up in the morning. When I'm trying to get to sleep and when I'm moving around (tossing and turning lol) while sleep, I prefer my space. I don't need his moving around to disturb me.
 
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~~HoneyComb~~ said:
Did you elbow him on purpose D, or was it an accident:lachen:?

You're right sometimes you just don't be in the mood and gotta have your space.
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on purpose. I had gotten up to use the bathroom earlier and he rolled over on my spot. And I had to yell MOVE to get back in the bed. So when he rolled up behind me I rolled over to try to get him to move and when he didn't I did it.:look:

Now, see, I don't understand how we have a king size bed but we (both of us) always end up on my half of the bed. So it's really like two people sleeping in a twin bed.:perplexed
 
Yes, I love to cuddle. But I have no one to cuddle with. . .except for my cabbage patch doll. Good enough for now.
 
I love cuddling :yep: And I used to only like being the one cuddled, but now I like being the one who cuddles; w/ my nose all up in his back. He is so warm! And we hold hands when we cuddle...we're so ghey :lol:
 
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