I'm not so much a cuddler, but DH and DD are, so I will do it for them.
Same here.
I was just telling my newly married coworker how dh loves to spoon and how I elbowed him in the face the other night. Ya know sometimes you just don't want to be bothered with all that.
Did you elbow him on purpose D, or was it an accident?
You're right sometimes you just don't be in the mood and gotta have your space.