^^^ That was my experience. When I joined the forum I was using no lye relaxers. I also had a bit of color in my hair. That combined with poor habits lead to dry crunchy hair. Plus I never liked bone straight hair. After reading and learning more about haircare I changed to lye relaxers. The difference for me was huge! It would still be several months of trial and error b/f I got the whole moisture balance / protein thing down. That lead to tex-laxing and finally no chemicals at all. IMO, my hair was not straighter w/ the lye relaxer but it def was healthier overall (far less breakage and splits).from what i understand no lye relaxers are much more drying to the hair.
of course, every head is different and not everyone experiences that effect.
I may be the only relaxed head that responds to no lye relaxers way better than lye. I switched to lye after years of using no lye and I ruined my hair and scalp! I went back to no lye right before my HHJ last year and use silken child and I have retained all my length and my dandruff issue is extinct! Lesson learned is that I'm part of the small % that do better with no lye. No dryness at all. So be careful thinking that lye relaxers are for everyone cause they are not!
^^^I'm a part of the same minority. Tried lye, didn't work so I had to stick with what works. I don't suffer any dryness at all.
lye is (supposedly) harder on the scalp, easier on the hair; no-lye is (supposedly) easier on the scalp, harder on the hair.
my hair was dry with both lye and no-lye; i now know it was/is the hard tap water. i just use a chelateing (sp) shampoo. it may also be my diet. idk.
i switched from lye to no-lye. i was tired of burned scalp, and hair i had to straighten with heat. i just wanted staight hair, and a simple wash-set routine.
i have not noticed any problems with the switch, and i even corrected the lye parts with no-lye. keep up your protein and moisture, of course.
good luck
@Mini mimi
I had to do this too. Really glad I made the switch too.
I think with a solid regimen & proper chelating (as necessary) things should be alright.
@IDareT'sHair
yup my hair is easier on wash day, and much easier to pincurl. it even looks neater. i am happy.
@IDareT'sHair
i lost alot of hair too. trying to use every detangler in the store. sigh... live and learn.
i hated lye. just the thought of the burn, makes my eyes water!
No-Lye Relaxers seal hair strands closed, which makes it close to impossible for conditioners and other hair aids to penetrate the hair shaft. This also allows the hair to become straighter for a longer period of time. Lye relaxers do not seal the hair shaft and are therefore healthier... but it's also harder to get bone straight hair with a lye relaxer. As a texlaxer who is not at all interested in bone straight hair, I use a lye relaxer.
I'm wondering where you got this information. I couldn't find it on Dr. Ali Sayed's website but might have missed it:
http://www.dralisyed.com/
What he says about relaxers in general is that the cuticle swells with the application of the relaxer at 13.0 ph to roughly 60-80% larger, opening up the cuticle and with rinse and neutralizing shampoo, it's open about 30%...so these two stages are the best for getting a polymer protein deep into the cortex of the hair. When the hair is neutralized and conditioned...the cuticle closes. No-lye relaxers do not seal the cuticles closed, according to the information I viewed. Where did you get that info, if I might ask?
Did you chelate/clarify?
Long story short, I was natural for many, many years. Before deciding to texlax, I did a ton of research. I did not take relaxing again lightly. In my research I found that lithium and potassium hydroxide (no-lye relaxers) leave behind mineral & calcium deposits, which block (basically seal) the hair shaft. This makes it very hard for nutrients and hair aids to be absorbed. Please forgive me for being too lazy too look this information up again for you. I've already done my research for my own purposes & this basic information has become common knowledge for me. If the dr that you are quoting has published everything there is to know about no-lye relaxers, then that information should definitely be a part of his publication. If not, then if you open to other sources, feel free to look it up.
Aside from the science, I've experienced personally that my hair is softer and less brittle with a lye relaxer. Before I was natural, I used no-lye relaxers. My no-lye relaxed hair was very dry & dull.
Did you chelate/clarify?
I'm a fan of lye, but I've heard so many ppl say that the problems w no lye were easily fixed by doing that. Just wondering..
Did you chelate/clarify?
I'm a fan of lye, but I've heard so many ppl say that the problems w no lye were easily fixed by doing that. Just wondering..