*ElleB
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Well, I decided to stop playing around and relli get on my hair care. As some many take note, that I'm new here. Anywhoo, I wash my 20 wk-post relaxer hair with Pantene's Pro-V's clarifying shampoo to get the gunk out. (And believe me, it WAS GUNKI-FIED!!) Then I applied the Aphogee. I bought the little single use packs, and Whoo! the SMELL, ugghh, like rotten cheetos or sumthin, but it wasn't overpowering. (Thank God) So I applied this and I worked it through with my hands, though the directions say comb it through (YEA RIGHT, not through my 20wks NG!!)(Damn when I think of it, that prolly done me in!) Then I proceeded to use my hand dryer to make it hard. When I rinsed it out I noticed that when it softened my hair was a freaking tangled mess!!!
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I wanted to cry!! I'm pulling with my fingers, and it's freaking dread locks here!!!!! But I say, "You know what, ain't nothing my beloved Mane N Tail detanger can't handle." (HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHA) So I proceed to put on the Balancing moisturizer--two packs cuz my hair was bushy.. THis moisturizer smells yummy by the way, about 10 minutes later I rinsed it out and boy was my hair soft! This moisturizer is a goodun!
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I rinsed that out and told myself, I better detangle now....And lordie lordie, y'all I saturated my hair with that detangler then proceed to comb...My comb laughed at that hair, only the front of my hair which is always str8 for some reason, relinquished to the detangler...the rest was a battle... I got some here and there til I came to this spot on the side where it was freaking fused like siamese twins...I combed, sprayed, combed, sprayed, combed, sprayed...Nuthin!! Now I was mad ...I marched angrily to my mom's room and said *gasp* "Where are the scissors??" Yes, ladies SCISSORS.... I went back to bathroom and gave that dang hair one last chance, but alas, it didn't relinquish, so I took the scissors and CUT IT OUT!!! Ironically all the hair I cut out was relaxed and the natural hair combed out like a well-behaved hair should do!!! WHen I was done with my attempt, I was upset. I deep conditioned with NTM recovery Mask, which is also fabulous!! Rinsed that and marched my defeated behind downstairs to the Dominican salon across the street! WHere the sage continued....
Poor lady! She tried combing it thru, and she must have changed the comb like 5 times! Then she went and got some leave-in from the closet and tried that....Anything to get my hair untangled..."then she Oh, mami....U want rollers??" And I could have laughed..I wanted to so bad..It was a lil embarrassing which is y it was funni to me... .SO she rolled me up, and she was literally sweating combing out the sections! SHe said, "ooh, caliente!" after she got done with a section and went and cracked the door open, HAHAHA...SHe used larger sections too, lol....But when she blew my hair, out let me tell u she did her thang with that dryer...Got my hair feeling like I got a fresh relaxer!! Needless to say, I tipped her well. AND on the bright side, the APhogee actually worked...No more breakage...!! But....
I think I'm sprinting back to a relaxer...lol, sorry to say, a 5 month stretch was long enuff...ONe of my life's goals still is to wear my hair au natural, but when I reach my goal length which is mid-back--a few inches past bra-strap, i will cut my hair to my chin to go natural....Until then....I think I'm gonna relax...
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I wanted to cry!! I'm pulling with my fingers, and it's freaking dread locks here!!!!! But I say, "You know what, ain't nothing my beloved Mane N Tail detanger can't handle." (HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHA) So I proceed to put on the Balancing moisturizer--two packs cuz my hair was bushy.. THis moisturizer smells yummy by the way, about 10 minutes later I rinsed it out and boy was my hair soft! This moisturizer is a goodun!
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I rinsed that out and told myself, I better detangle now....And lordie lordie, y'all I saturated my hair with that detangler then proceed to comb...My comb laughed at that hair, only the front of my hair which is always str8 for some reason, relinquished to the detangler...the rest was a battle... I got some here and there til I came to this spot on the side where it was freaking fused like siamese twins...I combed, sprayed, combed, sprayed, combed, sprayed...Nuthin!! Now I was mad ...I marched angrily to my mom's room and said *gasp* "Where are the scissors??" Yes, ladies SCISSORS.... I went back to bathroom and gave that dang hair one last chance, but alas, it didn't relinquish, so I took the scissors and CUT IT OUT!!! Ironically all the hair I cut out was relaxed and the natural hair combed out like a well-behaved hair should do!!! WHen I was done with my attempt, I was upset. I deep conditioned with NTM recovery Mask, which is also fabulous!! Rinsed that and marched my defeated behind downstairs to the Dominican salon across the street! WHere the sage continued....
Poor lady! She tried combing it thru, and she must have changed the comb like 5 times! Then she went and got some leave-in from the closet and tried that....Anything to get my hair untangled..."then she Oh, mami....U want rollers??" And I could have laughed..I wanted to so bad..It was a lil embarrassing which is y it was funni to me... .SO she rolled me up, and she was literally sweating combing out the sections! SHe said, "ooh, caliente!" after she got done with a section and went and cracked the door open, HAHAHA...SHe used larger sections too, lol....But when she blew my hair, out let me tell u she did her thang with that dryer...Got my hair feeling like I got a fresh relaxer!! Needless to say, I tipped her well. AND on the bright side, the APhogee actually worked...No more breakage...!! But....
I think I'm sprinting back to a relaxer...lol, sorry to say, a 5 month stretch was long enuff...ONe of my life's goals still is to wear my hair au natural, but when I reach my goal length which is mid-back--a few inches past bra-strap, i will cut my hair to my chin to go natural....Until then....I think I'm gonna relax...
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